being christian and and having kinky sex it's that possible?

[coolfrenchguy]

i'am very judgmental about the way than the christian instutions are ashaming sex (and all the religions in general)

could you tell me if you are biblical and you have kinky sex in your couple(straight),you don't need to be necesseraly linked to an institution, if you could seperate and split belief and sexual freedom really clearly


i have my values my ethics my integrity my moral code,than in a certain way are closed of the basic christian[even near of certain political currents] values,figure of speech more near of taoism/buddhism/tantrism point of view on sexuality.

when i says kinky is not the traditionnal missionary position in the dark at reproductive inclination,i mean 50 times more kinky, i don't know ,several adult practices as : oral (deepthroat),anal,domination/soumission,sextoys,spanking,rimming,role gameplay,sexy lingerie, hard sex with high sex drive/libido and plenty others erotic/sensual things than every couple should have.

i don't quoted all because the nebula is very large and you have maybe your very specific one,here i speak only in the frame of a monoamory serious relationship,married or not here is not the point,you could be in a free union and being faithfull each other and one of you could have faith in the Almighty .
you don't need to answer deeply in details,feels as you want,personnally i like to think freely without boundaries i mean not this damn culpabilty teached my the religious institutions.because seeking for testimonies from this kind of couples/believers is not really easy,i mean it's it possible to be christian but without following the biased christian morale when came the questions related to sex and and liberated sexuality,like a good little soldier.
to be able to cloisoning faith and sexual pleasures without feeling the false shame/guilt completly corrupted since centuries by so-called religious institutions,of what's i call the third parties who want decide at your place
it's a serious topic for me and maybe for others because i have a very specific psyche pattern where for me sex and love are interlocked,love without satisfy sexuality coulnd't exist
sex without love exist,love without sex exist called platonic love,but love without satisfying sex failed,it's mostly the primal cause of uneasiness in couples relationship and the cause of break-up or worse like cheating amid many others.
in my researches of a potential partner many paths lead me to a young white european women and amid these many have christian values,not necessary practicing deeply but still have the basic religious education,i haven't yet interract with them i have other things to fix first but i'am not completly closed to meet a moderate christian, i can't only conceived the relation into the frame of an trusty and faithfull monoamory.
this topic is to debate under the philosophical/religious angle,it's what's i try to do,personally i don't need morale lessons i'am certainly have more ethic than some.


thanks to answer if you can

[coolfrenchguy]

noeone with a quarter of an inch of idea?

[Harley]

Define kinky.

[Kazimiera]

Most religions emphasise monogamy and being married.

If you're married (to each other!) and swinging naked off the chandeliers I don't think God minds.

[Ruggery]

Most religions emphasise monogamy and being married.

If you're married (to each other!) and swinging naked off the chandeliers I don't think God minds.

Do you think that God forbids the practices of oral sex,the different sexual postures besides the missionary and masochism?

[Loki]

Of course, you have to realise that many old church institutions like the Catholic church have been trying to pass sex off as something evil, which it is not. God created sex! And he created man and woman to be intimate with each other, within the godly institution of marriage. And yes, there is no sex as good as between a husband and wife, who both love God. Sex is not dirty in itself.

[Nazarene]

I agree with Kaz, nearly anything goes with those two criteria being fulfilled. Every couple will have their preferences/kinks, but you should be always be responsible with it too. Larger than that, what matters is that sex should be used as an expression of deep love, and through loving each other we give glory to Christ.

[Ruggery]

Of course, you have to realise that many old church institutions like the Catholic church have been trying to pass sex off as something evil, which it is not. God created sex! And he created man and woman to be intimate with each other, within the godly institution of marriage. And yes, there is no sex as good as between a husband and wife, who both love God. Sex is not dirty in itself.

I believe that God created sexual pleasure as a privilege for humans and also to motivate couples to procreate and connect physically and spiritually.

However other branches of Christianity such as the Catholic Church misinterpret sexual pleasure and believe that it is something diabolic because it belongs to the flesh.

[Kazimiera]

Do you think that God forbids the practices of oral sex,the different sexual postures besides the missionary and masochism?

I don't think so. Like I said, as long as you're doing whatever it is with your husband or wife I think God is probably happy that you're happy.

[Kazimiera]

I believe that God created sexual pleasure as a privilege for humans and also to motivate couples to procreate and connect physically and spiritually.

However other branches of Christianity such as the Catholic Church misinterpret sexual pleasure and believe that it is something diabolic because it belongs to the flesh.

The Catholic Church does have some strange ideas (strange as far as I'm concerned) when it comes to sexuality.

Masturbation is a big no-no because sexual pleasure should only be experienced with your partner in marriage.

When it comes down to the deed, the man has to ejaculate into the woman's vagina during intercourse. Whatever they do up to that point is up to them, but the actual ejaculation must occur inside the vagina. In other words, his seed may not spill onto the ground (or her mouth or her boobs or wherever else). The woman, however, is not subject to these restrictions.

By placing this restriction on men and no contraceptives for women, the church is guaranteed of legions of little Catholics.