question for female users

[supergiovane]

how many males do you find sexually attractive out of a sample significant for you? (significant in terms of age, ethnic group etc.).

[Sikeliot]

Wait, do you mean if I was to walk up to a random group of 10 guys, about how many of them would I be attracted to?

[supergiovane]

yes

[Blossom]

One, the one who wins my selection mind-process exam. Never felt attracted by 2 guys at the same time. No matter what I always select.

[Bridie]

About 1 in 1 billion.

[Sikeliot]

Well of a random group I might think some of them are cute but I can quickly make accurate judgments of people's character, so I'd probably only end up attracted to 1 or 2.

[Oreka Bailoak]

This is a stupid question because it's too general. Girls are the same way as guys.

Often really perverted guys believe in the conspiracy theory that all guys have low standards in women like themselves (this bothers me very much, especially when girls believe this about guys).

Judging by your question I'd assume you'd buy into this idea that "men have lower standards than women" and you're trying to find out for sure. These types of guys typically view dating as short term and simply for meeting someone to have fun with. I view dating as the way to look for a long term partner for marriage.

This comment by you, supergiovane, really tells a lot about your messed up values.

yes, monogamy is unnatural and has been created to prevent conflicts and to pursue social stability. Women are naturally attracted to alpha males and if they were totally free to express their sexuality they would end up clustering around alpha males making beta males envious and fighting each others for mating chances. So monogamy serves the purpose of democraticizing sex and mating chances for every males no matter if beta or alpha.
that goes along with female sexual repression, it's unfair but it was originally conceived as a sacrifice for social stability

You need to read up on moral values. I'd suggest starting with Plato's Eros vs. Platonic love.

Love is sacred and has spiritual significance. To understand this spiritual significance (I'm not talking about religious) you should watch this video by Roger Scruton how "Beauty, Love and Religion affect the same part of the mind as 3 doors open to the same room".
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hjhVa...eature=related
^I made a thread about that in the philosophy section...

I hope you develop into the right direction.

[Talvi]

I think he is trying to find out how many guys on the whole we feel attracted to on average. Not are in love with or anything like that, at the same time.

Personally I dont see a lot of attractive guys around... and I think that on the whole there are more good looking women than men.

[Oreka Bailoak]

I think he is trying to find out how many guys on the whole we feel attracted to on average. Not are in love with or anything like that, at the same time.

Exactly. He views women as attracted merely to the small percentage of "Alpha males" because he thinks "monogamy is unnatural".

But the fact that women are so selective (similar to the men who have moral values- who he doesn't know exist) doesn't support the idea that "monogamy is unnatural".

It's a totally creepy mentality. I know the ideology that crafted a question like this. It raises a huge red flag in my mind. This is the perfect example of getting into the mind of a guy to find out who to avoid dating.

I hope you all don't think I'm crazy for taking over this thread but this is what my gut feeling says from his previous posts.

[Bridie]

Personally I dont see a lot of attractive guys around... and I think that on the whole there are more good looking women than men.

You should come to Australia then. There are plenty of good looking guys here. But personally, I think it takes a whole lot more than mere good looks for a man to be attractive. In fact, most men that I find good looking are not attractive at all to me.