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When I turned 21. It is pretty late for Croatia, average age of first sex is 16-17 years and getting lower all the time. Very happy that I waited.
I had first boyfriend at age 11 and he was weirdly mature for his age (looked older, and we were in same class) who was very interested in sex. I didn't sleep with him ofcourse but his tries to have sexual relations that give me lot of trauma. We were children!!
Than I had another boyfriend at age 16, in America, and I did not feel need to sleep with him for some reason. He was also quite Christian and didn't push me at all, thankfully. At that time I did not feel ready for sex and he wasn't type to attract me for that.
But when I started University and fall in love, I really wanted to try sex. And there was guy who really attracted me in that way. Long story short, nothing came of it and at age 20 I found first serious boyfriend who I loved and really wanted to enter world of sex with him. But we waited almost a year before we sleep togheder, when we were ready. He wasn't really experienced either and it was wonderful experience for both of us.
I encourage everyone to wait and decide to have sex really when they are ready, comfortable, and have a partner they trust.
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