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    Quote Originally Posted by Celestialsayer View Post
    It is. But it’s also helpful because it rules out a lot of rotten ones
    That's true. I just find people that run away from these situations as really immature.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Celestialsayer View Post
    Not really lol
    There’s a lot of men with that mentality
    Quote Originally Posted by IrisSelene View Post
    Which is sad.
    There's women with the same mentality too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by alnortedelsur View Post
    It would be a challenge, because you would have to make an effort to get her child/children to accept you. But if I'm in love with the woman, I wouldn't mind to make the effort, and try to love and take care of her kid/s as if he/she/they were my own.
    Kids adapt quite quickly to new circumstances, especially if the new person is easy going. There's no effort required. You go about your thing and when they decide they like you, it's all on them. You'll not likely notice.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Celestialsayer View Post
    Not really lol
    There’s a lot of men with that mentality
    Quote Originally Posted by IrisSelene View Post
    Which is sad.
    Quote Originally Posted by Celestialsayer View Post
    It is. But it’s also helpful because it rules out a lot of rotten ones

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dick View Post
    There's women with the same mentality too.
    Yes. I just said that I find PEOPLE like that immature.
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    Quote Originally Posted by IrisSelene View Post
    Yes. I just said that I find PEOPLE like that immature.
    It's not immature. It's their personal choice. I have a kid and that makes me a single dad but I would never want to date a single mom(been there, done that. No thanks) or get married to one. There's women out there that wouldn't want to be with me because I have a kid. So what. Their choice. I don't give a fuck. I'd rather focus on myself and my child first before I focus on someone else and someone else's kid/kids and forget the "but if you love them" part. It really dosn't exist. Most people just don't want to be alone for the rest of their lives so they'll be with anyone. Not me, I'm content.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dick View Post
    It's not immature. It's their personal choice. I have a kid and that makes me a single dad but I would never want to date a single mom(been there, done that. No thanks) or get married to one. There's women out there that wouldn't want to be with me because I have a kid. So what. Their choice. I don't give a fuck. I'd rather focus on myself and my child first before I focus on someone else and someone else's kid/kids and forget the "but if you love them" part. It really dosn't exist. Most people just don't want to be alone for the rest of their lives so they'll be with anyone. Not me, I'm content.
    Why such a downer on love?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Celestialsayer View Post
    It is. But it’s also helpful because it rules out a lot of rotten ones
    Do you think Im rotten too because of what I said? Read my OP again. I dont have anything against single mums. But I think it is quiete a heavy challenge and I also wouldnt really like to adopt children. I want biological children. Maybe If I had a second biological one with her I would also accept her child from a previous relationship.
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    I can think of a lot worse things than dating/marrying a single mom. People that struggle with adversity and perspective likely wouldn't do well in such a situation and thats probably for the best.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mortimer View Post
    Do you think Im rotten too because of what I said? Read my OP again. I dont have anything against single mums. But I think it is quiete a heavy challenge and I also wouldnt really like to adopt children. I want biological children. Maybe If I had a second biological one with her I would also accept her child from a previous relationship.
    Lol no Morty.

    What I meant by that statement was this
    If I’m dating a man and he doesn’t have good intentions once he finds out I have a child, he will disappear. That is what I mean by the rotten ones.

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