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    OKCupid is pretty much the best app to pick up women if you want girls into anything more than a one night stand.

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    Women get off on being chased. It's the game, and it's fun when done right.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Óttar View Post
    They are often engaged with writing a screen-play on their laptop or something. I don't know how on Earth I'm supposed to get their attention. Not to mention, rival males and girlfriends can cock-block.
    Never give up broski!

    If there aren't fish near the surface; you gotta dig deeper for the gold! ;P

    Local events.... parks... bar stools if you happen to sit next to a woman who is open... libraries, etc.

    There are no failures or successes; only learning curves and trial and error. Action and persistence is absolute when your confidence speaks for itself (no doubts); only the end goal of attaining what you set out to do is the only that matters; nothing more, nothing less.
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    TRUST in the law of averages, brother.

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    What is a cuddle party like? I've heard about them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by metalAphrodite View Post
    OkCupid was weird for the one week I was on it.

    I think people play around too much on there.

    And tbh, cuddle parties sound fun. Did you have to know someone to get in, or how did you find one?
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    I found it on Meetup.com.

    I went to this person's house and a bunch of people were there. The hostess was this short-haired Desi-American girl. She gave a 45 minute speech about not violating people's consent and that bullsh-t. I listened to enough of that crap after 4.5 years in the Boston BDSM scene, but whatever.

    You could just approach people and ask them if they wanted to cuddle. It could be any variation of that, like "May I do x and y?" and the person has the ability to accept or decline.

    This other cute, short-haired girl asked me if I'd like to get on my stomach and if she could mount me (fully clothed). She got on top of me and I started grinding my ass into her groin, but I had to tone it down because it wasn't a kinky sex-party. She was cool. She had been initiated into a Voudoun tradition. She unfortunately had to move to Arizona (of coooooourse) a month later.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Oneeye View Post
    OKCupid is pretty much the best app to pick up women if you want girls into anything more than a one night stand.
    It is the best, but it's just the least shitty of all the shitty options. It still sucks.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Óttar View Post
    This other cute, short-haired girl asked me if I'd like to get on my stomach and if she could mount me (fully clothed). She got on top of me and I started grinding my ass into her groin, but I had to tone it down because it wasn't a kinky sex-party. She was cool. She had been initiated into a Voudoun tradition. She unfortunately had to move to Arizona (of coooooourse) a month later.
    Why is it that all the cool women you meet somehow end up going away??

    I'm not being funny now, but you seem to draw the short end of the straw so many times in a row that it's almost uncanny.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kazimiera View Post
    Why is it that all the cool women you meet somehow end up going away??

    I'm not being funny now, but you seem to draw the short end of the straw so many times in a row that it's almost uncanny.
    There have been times where I literally have thought that my life must be an episode of the Twilight Zone. I'm not even joking. I have been stood up or short-changed like this so many times that I truly wonder how two people inhabit the same space for any appreciable amount of time anymore. I can't even get to the first coffee or cocktail-date, let alone get in a relationship. This is made worse by my non-traditional occupation, so my social life is shit. Even with Meetup, foreign language groups only meet ~ twice a month and you have all the same problems (women being married, in relationships, battling with rival males and cock-blocking girlfriends, etc).


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    Quote Originally Posted by Óttar View Post
    I have been stood up or short-changed like this so many times that I truly wonder how two people inhabit the same space for any appreciable amount of time anymore.
    Maybe going off-topic somewhat, but do you think some people are "cursed" with bad luck? My stepdad works in construction and every, single contract of his goes bad. It's unreal how much bad luck that man has. The odds say that you have to succeed at some point, even if it is by accident. Nope, not him. He has such consistent bad luck that you have to wonder whether someone out/up there has it in for him. If there was a bad luck lottery he'd hit the jackpot every time.

    I get this sort of impression for you too. I've known you for years and you have such consistently shitty luck with women that it's unreal. And it's not for lack of trying either.

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