Originally Posted by
farke1
What significantly helped me was taking some time off to go and travel and do some of the things I'd always wanted to do since I was a child. Sometimes we can get so caught up in the monotony and ceaseless drudgery of everyday life that we forget how to love and appreciate the simple things all around us.
For my part, I didn't have the happiest childhood, I was studying constantly and stressing about my university entrance exams, then I got into university and discovered I hated the course I was studying. I was under pressure from my lecturers, my parents, my friends and my girlfriend at the time, and everything took a massive toll on me. I was 21 at the time but felt as jaded, if not more, than someone three times my age.
I took a few months off and travelled to a beautiful part of the world I'd always wanted to see, and disconnected myself from social media/etc., and lived a simpler existence. I went for hikes, fished, made new friends and enjoyed the beauty of the natural world. And well, I'm fully confident that people will come in and say this sounds stupid: but I can wholeheartedly say that it restored my faith in the basic joys of being alive. It didn't magically make my depression disappear overnight, but it enabled me to fall in love with the basic concept of life once again, and that helped me to take the steps I needed to take in order to apply that basic level of happiness more broadly to the other aspects of my life. I know that my story is quite a specific one and I'm not saying that my advice will work for every single person out there, but my advice would simply be to find something that makes you happy and focus on that for a little while, until your mindset is a little more refreshed.
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