Do you think fat shaming really helps people lose weight?

[Richmondbread]

I hear stories of how people lose weight because they were bullied into it. I realize that may work for some people. But overall, I think it's better to be encouraging of people to make healthier habits, rather than just gripe about what's wrong with them, or complaining about them taking up too much space in an airplane. While I totally despise and disagree with "fat acceptance", the other extreme doesn't seem helpful either. In fact, it's the fat shaming that seems to fuel the fat acceptance movement, rather than counter it. It makes people want to rebel and find more excuses to be overweight . It's total B.S. You're not going to bully someone into losing weight. Constant Bullying is what made me gain weight in school.

[Roy]

No, I don't think it helps - no one should be bullied for that. I find it foul as well. But the fat acceptance movement is stupid too and yes I agree that the stronger the bullying is the more widespread is that ''fat and so proud'' stance that is just a deluded way of coping as in fiercely counterreacting.

[Harley]

No. I don’t believe fat shaming helps. I think each individual addressing why they’ve gained so much weight should probably evaluate why that’s the case and also consult with professionals to get a realistic plan on how to tackle weight loss.

[Mortimer]

I hear stories of how people lose weight because they were bullied into it. I realize that may work for some people. But overall, I think it's better to be encouraging of people to make healthier habits, rather than just gripe about what's wrong with them, or complaining about them taking up too much space in an airplane. While I totally despise and disagree with "fat acceptance", the other extreme doesn't seem helpful either. In fact, it's the fat shaming that seems to fuel the fat acceptance movement, rather than counter it. It makes people want to rebel and find more excuses to be overweight . It's total B.S. You're not going to bully someone into losing weight. Constant Bullying is what made me gain weight in school.

I agree. I was bullied for being fat and I was ashamed of my body. I didnt want to take off my shirt at beach or lockers room or mens shower room. I think bullying is wrong. People should be kindly encouraged to lose weight not bullied. I dont understand those people who say they are proud to be fat either. I saw some such people on TV in talk shows. It is weird too.

[Morena]

It depends on the type of shaming. Technically, telling someone that they have a weight problem is a type of "shaming." Technically, giving someone a look when they eat food that is not good for them is also "shaming." And also, telling people that certain behaviors are wrong and unhealthy, are "shaming." None of those behaviors- if done- properly are bullying. Those types of "shaming" are fine, that's how people stopped smoking cigarettes and how drunk driving became unacceptable.

But bullying? No, that is wrong and it doesn't work. It only makes people feel worse. My mother was bullied for years for her weight and it didn't help her.
So gentle "shaming" coupled with encouragement and sound advice works well.

[Nazarene]

Yes teasing is fine

[Zeus]

I was never fat, but my brother used to be obese. everyone in our family used to bully him mercilessly for being fat and eventually he had enough and started working out and dieting like mad. Now he is literally like a fitness model. So bullying CAN work in some cases lol, but I still feel horrible for doing it to him even though it maybe encouraged him

[dperucca]

Compassion and leading by example are always the best route when it comes to supporting loved ones struggling with their weight. I do suspect that a lot of these people who take to youtube and the news to complain about being shamed are more than likely projecting their own insecurities.

[Morena]

I was never fat, but my brother used to be obese. everyone in our family used to bully him mercilessly for being fat and eventually he had enough and started working out and dieting like mad. Now he is literally like a fitness model. So bullying CAN work in some cases lol, but I still feel horrible for doing it to him even though it helped him.

I think it depends on the person and sex. It probably works better for men because men are galvanized by challenges like that. Women are not. So bullying women into losing weight is the worst thing you can do. I know it didn't work for my mother, it only made her worse. The only reason she lost weight is because she developed type 2 Diabetes really bad, and had to take insulin twice a day. She hated it so much, that she followed a no-bread, low-carb diet and walks twice a day. She lost 80 lbs in a year.

[Mortimer]

I think it depends on the person and sex. It probably works better for men because men are galvanized by challenges like that. Women are not. So bullying women into losing weight is the worst thing you can do. I know it didn't work for my mother, it only made her worse. The only reason she lost weight is because she developed type 2 Diabetes really bad, and had to take insulin twice a day. She hated it so much, that she followed a no-bread, low-carb diet and walks twice a day. She lost 80 lbs in a year.

It may work for some men but not for me. I hate being bullied and shamed. I like being encouraged and positive comments. Like "Morti you lost alot of weight keep it up well done". Or "You can do it Morti dont give up". Not all men like being bullied.