What are your thoughts on older women dating younger men?

[Ruggery]

I personally want my wife to be 10 years younger than me. Number one reason being I am a single child so it will be best if I have a young wife to help me they care of my mother as her parents will still be younger (most likely my mom will die earlier). And of course, I will offer my full support when my future wife's parents are older. I don't believe in putting old parents in a care center to spend their last years. They should be close by and get the help they need from their children and grandchildren. Another reason is, of course, my baby mama will look significantly younger than me, which is great considering women age worse than men. So, I'd better wait until my 28th to 30th birthday to marry.

Is it common in your country for young people to care for their elderly parents?

[Matty74]

Update: they are still married and yesterday my dad bought my mom a huge chocolate cake

Women love cake and cookies. I'm 12 yrs older than my wife (we both lied about our ages at the bar haha) and when it comes down to it, it really doesn't matter if you have great chemistry.

I stopped at the bakery and got my wife and son some goodies yesterday. I even ate a cookie. Life's too short to worry about calories

[WeißerJunge]

Is it common in your country for young people to care for their elderly parents?

Absolutely not. I am not German, though. I am from Sweden. There elderly care centers all over the place because younger people do not take care of their old parents. Instead, they pay high taxes and let the government take care of it all. I personally look down on this behavior, but I do understand where these sons and daughters are coming from. Children are raised to be independent as soon as they hit 18 and leave their parents' home behind. Parents aren't super interested or involved in their children's' personal lives, something very different from more Latin-based cultures. It is a never ending cycle, but it's part of Swedish culture. Can't think that Germany is too different, but won't give an opinion on what I don't know about.

[Blondie]

Sometimes i've seen it in the pubs because there are many place in Budapest where the 20-40 old generations are partying together at these clubs. I don't judge them but interesting to see. Most these 40+ years old women seems to me rich.

[pajkosbalna]

Well, im 3 years older than my man and it works, but thats not a relevant gap.

[PaleoEuropean]

To each their own, I am not one to put a lot of thought into others happiness or lives.

[Dick]

To each their own, I am not one to put a lot of thought into others happiness or lives.

[zebruh]

I don't know about relationships. I just banged one a few times as a fuck buddy. But i don't see anything wrong with it personally.

These women are called cougars who look for a cub.