Have you ever on a date before?

[Lousianaboy]

I am 16 and I have never ha da girlfriend and I have never been in dates

[Marmara]

Really? You give the impression of being very social

I can be both extremely social or asocial. Many people around me gets surprised by my personality.

I don't like holding long conversations unless it's about a topic which interests me. I don't like talking about myself or my personal life, as well as hearing others talking about themselves.

[coolfrenchguy]

i'am not looking for a "date" i'am looking for something more deeper than that,i prefer the term meeting than "date",i think,but it's my personnal opinion than the "dates" are not strickly necessary in the first time,you should communicate more by text it's essential,especially if your looking abroad like me,for now i'am full of insecurities,and even in general i'am positive i'am questionnig myself if i will be able to find what i wish,great unknown,i really need to,first win a max of money,something i will normally to be able soon,to retake my life in hands,with improvments,and in a third time find the right media meaning the right medium(i know almost a synonym) for communicate with a potential partner,one of my idea it's to create my own blog on wordpress,my own blog as an extended dating profile,because you couldn't express youself on dating profile it's too short,a european multilingual blog from my french to english to plenty of different languages, but i really want find someone who fit my hardline with the physical who came with.
maybe i'am too picky too difficult,maybe i dream too much, in truth i don't know,i haven't a single clue,i want to be in position of force,undertand by that, i want to be in control of the process,from the beginning to an eventual end, i need also to rethink some of my options, i have really a perfect clear ideal,but i'am certainly too difficult,it's clearly one my main default,for now i have let a little bit the project on stand by but i don't let the rope,i want to settle down with a girl,i want to prove to myself that i'am able, but between ,i want it, and ,i can do it,(sorry for this bad translation)i'am really questionning myself, i have a feeling that the future non-met girl that i wish is far front of me and not behind and i will do anything possible,meaning moving mountains, for what i desire, but i have a good part of paranoîa to include in the package,my famous insecurities;so i don't really looking for a "date" because i use another kind of process,i'am more on the slow long term dating,but i play the transparecy and the professoral side, i think than to limit yourself of what the pre-programmed oriented dating sites are creating is a weakness, i mean it's just a client,an interface like a torrent for ex if i can take short-cut,it's really easier for the females,but for us males it's clearly more difficult,it's clearly disbalanced, if i can give some advices trying find other paths, i think than paying dating websites could be a good option,why ,because the freeones are shitty,it's mean than when you are free member you are just a lurker and you are unable to interract with anyone,and choose the desktop websites it's clearly better,and choose a partner male or female with an old fashion mood/mindset meaning someone who want to be "married" with you and not with her/his bunch of buddies or his/her work,don't forget to be very belly centered is very important,being very selfish,because it's concern you dirrectly,it's trully the case,bypass all the things than some third parties could think about you too and your eventual future partner,you really need to go on a deep analysis aside the first sight who is the physical who is really obvious,and i'am really ready to be transeuropean,but my mindset it's too complicated to be resume to a few words,ask you also the question did i deserve him/her,does she/he deserve you not necessary in a dark and negative mood but it's something to not negligate,seen also the thing like a corporate contract too,the more ahead you are clear and the less counfused you will be later when the things became more deep and serious (marriage?) and don't have sex with your date ,be serious,just flirting,build something,something real,because when having sex for sex your ruining everything, you will be all the time later for sure, you need to respect these steps if you want a start of something serious,i'am i this mood to frame and clarify to the max.

[coolfrenchguy]

Just display confidence and be a gentleman (not a cuck though), women love that. Don't pretend to be something you're not, girls are incredibly good at reading your emotions and thoughts. Even if she is top tier don't put her in a pedestal, treat her as an equal.

If she rejects you: never, never, never insist. Just leave it be, grow a pair, and continue with your life, she might come back later. Don't take it personally, you'll reject and will be rejected, you can't expect to like all women even if you're a 10.

i really agree with you need be her sanctuary,even the beautifull hot girls with a lot of pressures,need to someone with to seriously talk with bypass her physical seen, if i may ,seen the "littlle girl" or "the little boy" because we have been all a little boy/girl,i want mean a kid by the past,it's where a lot of "alpha" male failled because they don't seen that,just the competition,but i 'am not in competition i bypass all of this.
an other advice,act zen don't even try to be physically involved ,be side by side ,with a certain distance at first,listen her try to be a friend, at first,thing you will do all the rest of the time if you will go further,women,even the most beautifull and "hot" need of a sanctuary,and a male friend,it's that, to be someone,descent,and believe me it's changing the perspectives

[Oghuz]

not very experienced with dating but don't let her dominate you

[coolfrenchguy]

Just display confidence and be a gentleman (not a cuck though), women love that. Don't pretend to be something you're not, girls are incredibly good at reading your emotions and thoughts. Even if she is top tier don't put her in a pedestal, treat her as an equal.

If she rejects you: never, never, never insist. Just leave it be, grow a pair, and continue with your life, she might come back later. Don't take it personally, you'll reject and will be rejected, you can't expect to like all women even if you're a 10.

i really agree with you need be her sanctuary,even the beautifull hot girls with a lot of pressures,need to someone with to seriously talk with bypassing her physical seen, if i may ,seen the "littlle girl" or "the little boy" because we have been all a little boy/girl,i want mean a kid by the past,it's where a lot of "alpha" male failled because they don't seen that,just the competition,but i 'am not in competition i bypass all of this.
an other advice,act zen don't even try to be physically involved ,be side by side ,with a certain distance at first,listen her try to be a friend, at first,thing you will do all the rest of the time if you will go further,women,even the most beautifull and "hot" need of a sanctuary,and a male friend,it's that, to be someone,descent,and believe me it's changing the perspectives

[Beowulf]

Very few times only.

[Katarzyna]

Very few times only.

I will take you on a date

[tropicalslavic]

I've had boyfriends but never formally dated. Never used a dating app, never met a new person and then went on a date with them, etc. I mostly just started dating people I got to know as friends. After which point there were things that would be considered "dates". I also have no idea what to do with the opposite sex at all (and increasingly less interest in anything beyond friendship) so there's that as well, I highly doubt my experience is normal.

[Vessna]

No we went straight to fuckin or straight to the wedding desk

it's called adult dating