Im such a unlucky guy

**RN97** · 08-21-2019, 10:12 PM

Originally Posted by Mopi

spot on

dont white knight any woman...they arent worth it

if a woman likes you, they let you know about it...trust me morts

This is just delusional. He's a overweight gypsy. What woman would like him and for what reason? He's not high status or wealthy......
The only way forward for him would be to just try to lose weight and then hope for something good. Simply getting experiences with women will help you. I'm not really talking about the types you've had with your lady friend who's been friend-zoning you to death, but trying to get a woman in a sexual/ romantic manner. You'll learn more about them with more experiences as you have. Another thing that might save you is your height, so how tall are you?

**TheMaestro** · 08-21-2019, 10:13 PM

Originally Posted by Mortimer

I tried with thousands of women in the past 15 years.

On internet? You guys are wasting your time on internet and some of you talk to those girls on TA, like you ever have chance with them. Are those thousand womans from the same situation as you've described now or on the internet? Because I can assure you that if those were from IRL atleast few would go out with you maaaan....

**RN97** · 08-21-2019, 10:27 PM

Originally Posted by TheMaestro

On internet? You guys are wasting your time on internet and some of you talk to those girls on TA, like you ever have chance with them. Are those thousand womans from the same situation as you've described now or on the internet? Because I can assure you that if those were from IRL atleast few would go out with you maaaan....

Dude, today meeting a partner online is like the 2nd-3rd most common method so you're just trying to gaslight him. Online dating does honestly represent real life dating in quite a real manner. There are certain things, such as sociability, status and perhaps even wealth that you can't see in online dating, but those factors are not going to help him either way. The only way for him is to improve on his looks or his financial situation or it's hopeless.

**~~Moje ime~~** · 08-21-2019, 10:33 PM

Mortimer, this woman is your only chance, you should find her. Don't waste your time on other kinds of women, that won't work. (she wants to marry but have problem finding husband, as she says in video

)

**TheMaestro** · 08-21-2019, 10:37 PM

Originally Posted by RN97

Dude, today meeting a partner online is like the 2nd-3rd most common method so you're just trying to gaslight him. Online dating does honestly represent real life dating in quite a real manner. There are certain things, such as sociability, status and perhaps even wealth that you can't see in online dating, but those factors are not going to help him either way. The only way for him is to improve on his looks or his financial situation or it's hopeless.

This doesnt apply for him, because the way he talks with woman is very wierd, they have to see him IRL because he sometimes sounds as a creepy guy. You get definitely more pussy nowaydays on social apps but it's not for him.

**RN97** · 08-21-2019, 10:41 PM

Originally Posted by TheMaestro

This doesnt apply for him, because the way he talks with woman is very wierd, they have to see him IRL because he sometimes sounds as a creepy guy. You get definitely more pussy nowaydays on social apps but it's not for him.

Come on dude. You really think that he will sound less "creepy" in real life? I know you're trying to help him, but to me, it's important that he understands that there is only one thing he should focus on now. Lose weight, and try getting a job. That will help a million times more than you're coping mechanism advice.

**TheMaestro** · 08-21-2019, 11:15 PM

Originally Posted by RN97

Come on dude. You really think that he will sound less "creepy" in real life? I know you're trying to help him, but to me, it's important that he understands that there is only one thing he should focus on now. Lose weight, and try getting a job. That will help a million times more than you're coping mechanism advice.

Nope, I already told him milion times what to do, and how easilly he can lose weight, he is just lazy. He just needs to find 1 from a 10000 a girl that will like him for what and who he is.

**Mortimer** · 08-22-2019, 01:00 AM

Originally Posted by TheMaestro

On internet? You guys are wasting your time on internet and some of you talk to those girls on TA, like you ever have chance with them. Are those thousand womans from the same situation as you've described now or on the internet? Because I can assure you that if those were from IRL atleast few would go out with you maaaan....

In real life and online both.

**Mortimer** · 08-22-2019, 01:05 AM

Originally Posted by Moje ime

Mortimer, this woman is your only chance, you should find her. Don't waste your time on other kinds of women, that won't work. (she wants to marry but have problem finding husband, as she says in video

)

If she were younger she would be beautiful I can see that. But she is old and widowed and lost her teeth.

**Westbrook** · 08-22-2019, 01:17 AM

This is how all of my real relationships have happened. I didn't go looking for any of them, they just...happened.

For the record Mort, most women aren't interested in being asked out by strange men while they're working. Really doesn't matter who you are.

Originally Posted by Loki

I think you're trying too hard. Just forget about it and go on with your life, and when you least expect it you could meet someone at the right time.