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I’m a little bummed by that whole thing because I remember thinking several times in the past, “Why don’t thousands of people try to rush Area 51 all at once? Someone will probably get through.” But I don’t have Facebook so I never turned it into a group. If I had, I would be leading Alien Woodstock right now
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I think you're being far too picky. Millions of people live in these nations but yet they aren't complaining.
I'm just wondering if you your depression is really a result of your environment - or are you trying to blame your country for more deeper issues going on...? Are you seeking an escape from a situation and are you trying to find some idyllic fantasy paradise country, where you'd imagine everything in life to be perfect... because no absolutely perfect place exists in reality.
I used to be like that between the ages of 15-16 in senior school and I constantly dreamt about moving away to live in another nation... I used to be so obsessed with wanting to move away and would stare for long hours at pictures of other countries in books after school.... agonising and wondering where to move to. It felt like mental torture as I couldn't decide on which country to move to. I'd look at so many pictures of beautiful places in other countries... and longed to be in the pictures amongst the scenery. Everything looked so perfect in the pictures.
I'd stare for long hours at pictures in books that I'd hire from the school library of Italy, France, the US, Switzerland, Austria, Australia, etc... constantly telling my mum I was going to live in different nations each evening. I was so obsessed and distracted with wanting to move away to live in another country and imagined life would be pefect, that it affected my school studies.
Then I was hospitalised at age 16/17 and had to finish my school education in a countryside hospital. That's when I learned to stop obsessing with wanting to move away. (Well I ran away from the countryside hospital to London after a few months... but unfortuately took my anxiety and depression problems with me.)
I kept moving to different homes every few weeks or few months... and moved to over 11 different addresses within two years. I lived out of my suitcase. Everytime I experienced a problem in life, I'd just pack my bags and move away again. Running away and never facing the problem. But something I learned was that you can't run away from your problems... and the past still haunts you wherever you move to.
I used to always think that the grass would be greener on the other side of the fence.... and that running away to live in another land was the answer to solving problems. I was seeking an escape from other issues. By age 18, I found new love and had a son, and grew out of my fantasies and started living in the real world... and that's when I actually started enjoying life - and not only that - I realised that I already live in a beautiful country in many respects when I started to appreciate the landscape here, instead of day-dreaming and staring at pictures of other nations. I wish I could've realised that as a teenager as it would've saved me a lot of mental torture.
Sometimes my mum still teases me about my teenage obsession with Italy, France, Switzerland, the U.S., and um, too many counties to list that I wanted to move away to when I kept changing my mind... lol. (It's embarrassing.)
It feels like the world living in one city in London... (in a single day here it's easy to meet people from all over the UK who live here ... and Americans, Canadians, Aussies, French, Italian, Swedes, Russians, Chinese, Japanese, etc,) ... and we've got plenty of green spaces here too which I love. It's got it's downsides too - and it's upsides. I've learned to take the good with the bad... c'est la vie. That's life. Few places are perfect. A very famous and popular saying about London is, 'If you're tired with London, then you're tired with life... because there is in London all life can afford.' - Samuel Johnson.
All nations have their problems of some sort because perfection doesn't exist - and life is full of problems too... but people learn how to face problems and manage and emerge stronger, rather than trying to run away or escape into a fantasy land.
The U.S. is a great nation with so many landscapes and choices there. I think if you're feeling sad in a country as popular and great as the U.S. with so many choices of areas to live - then I don't know where you'll be happy.
You could try Antarctica.... there's no muslims there.
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Well I’m being a bit tongue-in-cheek. I’m not certain I’m going to move to another country, though I do fantasize about it. Mostly I’m looking for a place I can fall in love with, learn the language, visit a bunch of times, make some friends, expand my horizons. I don’t expect to ever live in a place that’s completely perfect, nor would I even want to.
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I think you should visit countries and spend some time there before planning to move to live in them ... because what you see in glossy tourist pictures often doesn't show the full picture and the reality... the good and the bad sides.
You don't need to move far away to find friends.
Also how would you feel living a long distance away from your relatives, (especially in times of an accident or an emergency of being rushed to hospital, etc?)
And would you like to be viewed as an immigrant in another nation? Some people find that a bit challenging, as even if a person learns to speak another language - they still wouldn't sound like a native, and so would subconsciously always be regarded by the local people there as a second rate citizen and a migrant in another land who hasn't culturally been raised there.
Would you be able to find work and a home if you're not fluent in a foreign language in another country?
I've seen news reports in the last few years about a high number of people amongst US expats who've revoked their American citizenship (Boris Johnson included - who used to have dual British and American citizenship,) due to U.S. laws of having to pay taxes to the U.S. whilst living in a different nation. So there's taxes to consider too.
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It would be difficult. I’m not certain I’m going to permanently move anywhere. I’m joking when I imply that I’ve got my bags packed and am ready to move away. Mostly I just want to get out and see a new place.
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