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    Default Arranged marriage is not available for me

    Many told me to get a arranged marriage "because Im from a community or culture" which practices arranged marriage. That is not true. Because my community and family doesnt practice arranged marriage since generations as far as Im aware. They all met with normal dating. Parents, Grandparents, Relatives etc. While it is true that some gypsy communities practice arranged marriage even as far as promising 7 year old Kids to eatch other it is not true for all gypsies just like there are many gypsies who dont speak the gypsy language but are still not less gypsy. People are not aware of the diversity of gypsy communities. I dont have the contacts, to get a arranged marriage. What I did is to ask relatives if there are single women in our community or among aquaintances of our family and they said they are all married. It is true that most of them get married young. In my community not as children but as young as 17 years old. So the conclusion dont tell me to get a arranged marriage anymore. It is not possible. Do you believe me? I can get a gypsy woman but I need to date her, ask her out, go on a date, meet her somewhere on the streets or nowadays online etc. But it is normal dating not arranged and it is as difficult as with any other race.

    That being said. Im not unhappy single. Im a happy single. And better alone then with the wrong person. A negative person can put you even more down.
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    Go to Bulgaria. Their Roma community practices arranged marriage there.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Óttar View Post
    Go to Bulgaria. Their Roma community practices arranged marriage there.
    Why should I go there? Im not from there and I dont have contacts to that community. Should I just appear or what? You are a dumb fuck, you are the one who tells me this all the time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mortimer View Post
    Why should I go there? Im not from there and I dont have contacts to that community. Should I just appear or what? You are a dumb fuck, you are the one who tells me this all the time.
    Then fine, don't go there. I don't give a shit.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Óttar View Post
    Then fine, don't go there. I don't give a shit.
    You are a dumb fuck. And in Bulgaria it is certain communities, I think the "tinkers" is their name who do that, and they want that the groom is a "tinker" as well. And historically it is a prestige to be a tinker because they were less discriminated then the other roma. You have no idea about roma. Im not Bulgarian, not tinker. I dont have any connections. I could go as well to any country. Like Thailand. Thats such stupid nonsense.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mortimer View Post
    You are a dumb fuck.


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    I had a strong feeling that this was going to be one of your threads before clicking on the title.... I just knew. My instinct was correct.

    It's kind of funny though - cos upon clicking on the thread, I initially thought for a moment that you're now converting to Islam... just for an arranged marriage.

    But I see it's about the Roma community.

    I don't think arranged marriages are natural nor truly happy ... as you can't force people to feel attracted to each other, or to get along well.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ♥ Lily ♥ View Post
    I had a strong feeling that this was going to be one of your threads before clicking on the title.... I just knew. My instinct was correct.

    It's kind of funny though - cos upon clicking on the thread, I initially thought for a moment that you're now converting to Islam... just for an arranged marriage.

    But I see it's about the Roma community.

    I don't think arranged marriages are natural nor truly happy ... as you can't force people to feel attracted to each other, or to get along well.
    As I said Im a happy single. And I have friends and family and hobbies. I dont have sex, but I could if I wanted. Just yesterday I saw a new advertisement. 30 minutes 60 € and 1 hour 90 € for sex with a escort here in my town. People think that Im losing weight to get girls or that I would do everything just to get a girl. But Im losing weight for myself and a negative girl is much worse then being single.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mortimer View Post
    You are a dumb fuck. And in Bulgaria it is certain communities, I think the "tinkers" is their name who do that, and they want that the groom is a "tinker" as well. And historically it is a prestige to be a tinker because they were less discriminated then the other roma. You have no idea about roma. Im not Bulgarian, not tinker. I dont have any connections. I could go as well to any country. Like Thailand. Thats such stupid nonsense.
    Tinkers was the non-PC name for Irish Travellers.

    Tinkers is a term for a group of Irish Travellers who worked with tin and mended pots and pans from door to door in rural Ireland before urbanisation in the 1960's. This is a perjoritive term these days and is used to insult Irish Travellers, as gyppo is to insult Romani people (different ethnic nomads in Britain & Ireland).

    Not all Irish Travellers were tinkers (from tinsmithing or tinsmith) as there were horse dealers, market traders etc.
    https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=tinkers

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