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Many told me to get a arranged marriage "because Im from a community or culture" which practices arranged marriage. That is not true. Because my community and family doesnt practice arranged marriage since generations as far as Im aware. They all met with normal dating. Parents, Grandparents, Relatives etc. While it is true that some gypsy communities practice arranged marriage even as far as promising 7 year old Kids to eatch other it is not true for all gypsies just like there are many gypsies who dont speak the gypsy language but are still not less gypsy. People are not aware of the diversity of gypsy communities. I dont have the contacts, to get a arranged marriage. What I did is to ask relatives if there are single women in our community or among aquaintances of our family and they said they are all married. It is true that most of them get married young. In my community not as children but as young as 17 years old. So the conclusion dont tell me to get a arranged marriage anymore. It is not possible. Do you believe me? I can get a gypsy woman but I need to date her, ask her out, go on a date, meet her somewhere on the streets or nowadays online etc. But it is normal dating not arranged and it is as difficult as with any other race.
That being said. Im not unhappy single. Im a happy single. And better alone then with the wrong person. A negative person can put you even more down.
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