Do Incels deserve more?

[PaleoEuropean]

They need to go to church and learn some knowledge.

[Harley]

Nope. Nobody deserves anything.

+1

I say this all the time. No one deserves anything. They can only align themselves to be worthy of their goals.

[Harley]

I didn’t read beyond the first page yet.

I think there’s a huge lack of self awareness in regards to incels. Like I saw a reddit post where the guy looks like he was crying and the title was something like he got library security called on him. When someone asked specifically what happened, it turns out this fool ran his fingers through some random girl’s hair, saying she shouldn’t have fixed it like that if she didn’t want him to do that, and if he were a Chad, she would have let him.

Um, how about no because most people do have a strong need for personal space and looking conventionally attractive wouldn’t have changed that? It’s called common courtesy.

Anyway, to say that someone deserves something creates this unhealthy relationship between self and that other thing. Cold hard truth is that nothing is promised to you except for death.

Some people work out at the gym. Some people try to be more loving and caring in interactions. Some people take classes on public speaking, etc and so forth. At some point, you have to address your issues.

I do feel bad that some people tend to be/feel like incels, but what can be realistically done that I haven’t done for myself?

I grew up believing I was ugly, so I developed a personality. I believed that if I tried hard enough to improve myself, I’ll find someone who will appreciate my company.

If I am ugly, should I cry about not having all men slobber over me? What is that going to do for me? Nothing. I don’t believe people should treat themselves badly or be treated badly, but I think that some effort should be applied.

If people make fun of someone else for being a virgin or not having a girlfriend, so what. Fuck those fools. Don’t allow yourself to be pressured by dumb assholes and work towards your goals.

[Pigling]

They need to go to church and learn some knowledge.

Church doesn't fix autism. I personally tried to find myself in many religious teachings, but in the end it was only me that could help myself.

I didn’t read beyond the first page yet.

I think there’s a huge lack of self awareness in regards to incels. Like I saw a reddit post where the guy looks like he was crying and the title was something like he got library security called on him. When someone asked specifically what happened, it turns out this fool ran his fingers through some random girl’s hair, saying she shouldn’t have fixed it like that if she didn’t want him to do that, and if he were a Chad, she would have let him.

Um, how about no because most people do have a strong need for personal space and looking conventionally attractive wouldn’t have changed that? It’s called common courtesy.

Anyway, to say that someone deserves something creates this unhealthy relationship between self and that other thing. Cold hard truth is that nothing is promised to you except for death.

Some people work out at the gym. Some people try to be more loving and caring in interactions. Some people take classes on public speaking, etc and so forth. At some point, you have to address your issues.

I do feel bad that some people tend to be/feel like incels, but what can be realistically done that I haven’t done for myself?

I grew up believing I was ugly, so I developed a personality. I believed that if I tried hard enough to improve myself, I’ll find someone who will appreciate my company.

If I am ugly, should I cry about not having all men slobber over me? What is that going to do for me? Nothing. I don’t believe people should treat themselves badly or be treated badly, but I think that some effort should be applied.

If people make fun of someone else for being a virgin or not having a girlfriend, so what. Fuck those fools. Don’t allow yourself to be pressured by dumb assholes and work towards your goals.

It's not just about getting laid and losing virginity.

Seeing from my personal experience I can tell that since earliest childhood I had issues when it comes to socialization.

Asperger Syndrome/High Functioning Autism have nothing to do with confidence issues.

In fact, it's not personality disorder, but genetically caused neurological life-long condition.

Until month ago I didn't know I have Asperger so all my life I knew there's something different about me that separates me from my peers, but I didn't know the answer.

Few times I tried to go to clubs and concerts, but all that massive social gatherings felt like neurological torture and just being in public where I had to restrain myself from my unusual behaviors that I do inside my house such as repetitive walking and holding lace in my hand and repetitively bouncing it against wall or throwing it in the air and catching it, is something that drains my energy and makes me feel tired.

Few days ago I was at open air rock concert after few years and then when after just 1 hour I came back to home I felt dizzy having mild headache.

[Richmondbread]

Yes, we do.

[Richmondbread]

Church doesn't fix autism. I personally tried to find myself in many religious teachings, but in the end it was only me that could help myself.



It's not just about getting laid and losing virginity.

Seeing from my personal experience I can tell that since earliest childhood I had issues when it comes to socialization.

Asperger Syndrome/High Functioning Autism have nothing to do with confidence issues.

In fact, it's not personality disorder, but genetically caused neurological life-long condition.

Until month ago I didn't know I have Asperger so all my life I knew there's something different about me that separates me from my peers, but I didn't know the answer.

Few times I tried to go to clubs and concerts, but all that massive social gatherings felt like neurological torture and just being in public where I had to restrain myself from my unusual behaviors that I do inside my house such as repetitive walking and holding lace in my hand and repetitively bouncing it against wall or throwing it in the air and catching it, is something that drains my energy and makes me feel tired.

Few days ago I was at open air rock concert after few years and then when after just 1 hour I came back to home I felt dizzy having mild headache.

"self help" is really flawed. Perhaps you think you helped yourself in some way, but God probably gave you the mind and the tools necessary to do so.

[TheOldNorth]

incels are just another effect of the terrible sickness that has infected the western way of life, one in which women, and dark folk are automatically better then white men, and one in which this is done in the name of equality. One in which science is thrown out the window for the greed of money, and race is only skin deep except for whites in which it means evil. One in which women can do whatever men can, but men can't do whatever men can...
It causes boys in this world to lose hope, and I don't blame them, they lose hope and thus they spend their time on the internet just as I do, except unlike me, it is not in the pursuit of knowledge, but the pursuit of happiness, happiness which is not true...

[Joso]

The very least we could do for incels is to legalize prostitution. Men with very low value on the sexual market (often for reasons they can't control like being ugly and short) have less and less dating opportunities as the society moves away from monogamous standards and adopts filtering apps like Tinder as standard means of dating. Sexual needs are to some extent essential just like eating, drinking, sheltering and socializing.

Disagree about last part. Sex is not in any way similar to drinking and eating. You can live all your life withou sex. However, you will die in a few days If you don't eat or drink.