Do you Think It Is Worth It To Enter In A Relationship?

[Joso]

What are the pros and cons? How was( were) your experience(s)?

[TheOldNorth]

perhaps this is because I've never really had a relationship before, but I'd say it's not worth it to not have a relationship, and perhaps that's also because I'm introverted and want a friend who will come with me anywhere I go and support me in (mostly) anything I do, and it's hard for me to make friends. I think a life spent a alone, is not a life worth it at all, and if I don't have a relationship by the time I'm 30, I'll be severely disappointed in life (more than I already am anyways)

[sean]

A relationship will always be worth it if it's well put together, but if you're looking for something to put your dong in just get an escort. If you want a fulfilling relationship, you can't sleep around. There's a few ground rules that both parties must adhere to, mainly mutual loyalty, fidelity, respect, and willingness to sacrifice.

I've had a couple dozen women and six serious relationships, now it gets tougher as you get older. I have a decent income and it doesn’t change the situation I find myself in. Women I’m attracted to are entitled and it’s exhausting. You don't have the time to build trust that you did with your cohort that you went to school with. Take care of your relationships like a garden if you really want them. Don't expect a lot, don't be needy.

Women exist as a support role for men, and crappy women will cling to crappy men (and vice versa).

[Westbrook]

What a weird way to think of this. It's not like joining a gym or something...You meet someone or know someone, you realize you have feelings for each other, you spend more time together, and before you know it you're in a relationship.

[Zeus]

Some are better off alone for sure. In general it's desirable though. They can comfort you when times are tough, they can motivate you, and they can just act as a friend and companion in general.

[Joso]

perhaps this is because I've never really had a relationship before, but I'd say it's not worth it to not have a relationship, and perhaps that's also because I'm introverted and want a friend who will come with me anywhere I go and support me in (mostly) anything I do, and it's hard for me to make friends. I think a life spent a alone, is not a life worth it at all, and if I don't have a relationship by the time I'm 30, I'll be severely disappointed in life (more than I already am anyways)

Are you really an introvert, though? How many minutes you can be alone with yourself without needing another person or without internet, without movies, musics, books, etc? Can you really stand yourself alone for a big time? Think about It.
I also had thought that i was an introvert all of my life till now( i've got more conscience) and i see that the truth is that i just have been ignoring myself( and ignoring the others, too).

[Celestia]

Relationships can be a beautiful thing when it’s with the right person. I’m a chick but there isn’t a better feeling than being wrapped up in the arms of someone you truly care about.
And I have grown as a person from every relationship I’ve been in. The good ones and the bad ones.
You will learn a lot about yourself and others.
I am definitely for relationships.
Good luck

[happycow]

Yes

[Joso]

Relationships can be a beautiful thing when it’s with the right person. I’m a chick but there isn’t a better feeling than being wrapped up in the arms of someone you truly care about.
And I have grown as a person from every relationship I’ve been in. The good ones and the bad ones.
You will learn a lot about yourself and others.
I am definitely for relationships.
Good luck

Thank for the input, Very good! How do you deal with your privacy?

[Celestia]

Thank for the input, Very good! How do you deal with your privacy?

You have to set boundaries from the get go.
Just because you’re in a relationship with someone it doesn’t mean you have to be attached at the hip every day.
As long as she knows what your expectations are everything should be okay.