Men Or Women: Which One Is More Lookist?

[Oneeye]

All humans have flaws nobody is perfect and our little quirks make us unique, a loving partner would complement/accept them.
You accept flaws because you love the other person and you'll try to uplift them, it's that simple really. !!

Yes. In a healthy relationship.


Overall, American women do not respect boundaries.


I had an ex log into my bank account last spring... I found out because she started rage texting asking me "who" am I stalking... because she saw a background check website's renewal fee in my transactions.

When I tell people this... can you guess the most common response? Laughter. American women give each other a pass on that level of crazy.


That behavior is not ok... this isn't a sitcom.

[MissMischief]

It's the same thing for men unless they are idiots. Personality matters a lot. And a lot of other values. It isn't mainly based on looks. Especially not if she's gonna be the mother of your children.

Personality has a much greater effect on women's perception of good looks than men.

Women are generally less influenced by physical looks. So really dudes, it's much more important to be a valuable social partner than worry about your physical looks.

Thank evolution.

[Ylla]

Yes. In a healthy relationship.


Overall, American women do not respect boundaries.


I had an ex log into my bank account last spring... I found out because she started rage texting asking me "who" am I stalking... because she saw a background check website's renewal fee in my transactions.

When I tell people this... can you guess the most common response? Laughter. American women give each other a pass on that level of crazy.


That behavior is not ok... this isn't a sitcom.

Yeah I get what you mean that's pretty messed up and not healthy at all.

[Dorian]

Men.

Tinder conducted a social experiment regarding this. A woman would use a picture of an attractive person and then the person would wear a fat suit when meeting their date to see if they would run away or not once their partner wasn't as attractive as they expected. The women were more likely to stay with the man after they found out he was fat whereas every single man left the woman once they found out she was fat.

Video of the woman wearing the fat suit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C2jUqUb2gjQ

Video of TYT reacting to the whole thing that includes the video of the man wearing the fat suit (I couldn't find the video of the man wearing it so just linked TYT's video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-yMhfG7e-A0

This isn't an "expirement" bruh and not an answer to OP...you don't see who's more lookist there but reactions to being deceived and the empathy differences , obviously the ones who "conducted" it wanted that specific result to push a message ,it doesn't matter If it's true or no ,the goal was appeal to emotions with a video(most "social expirement" videos are made for this reason).Plus the girl of the expirement didn't help with her "attitude" either.

[Ylla]

It's something that should work both ways.
And I'm not a guy

I don't think I got my point across correctly but what I mean is attractive people are appealing to everyone and not limited to a select few. Most people date/marry similar looking to themselves anyway. On the same level of attractiveness

[Xz2k9]

Personality has a much greater effect on women's perception of good looks than men.

Women are generally less influenced by physical looks. So really dudes, it's much more important to be a valuable social partner than worry about your physical looks.

Thank evolution.

Both men and women care about looks to some degree.

In order for a girl to be interested in you she's first going to have to find you PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE. Personality is what makes you keep her eventually or keep her interested.


All the personality in the world isn't gonna make a difference if she doesn't find you attractive physically enough to be interested in you....