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Some people have bipolar tendencies. One guy I met was like this.I feel disappointed as he used to post a lot of abuse to me several years ago about my son. I used to feel nervous anytime I saw him logged-on, and would avoid posting on threads wherever I saw him appear... or would just log out as I just knew he'd be abusive about my son anytime I posted on a thread.
I just stayed out his way as much as possible to avoid getting abuse - and then one day out of the blue, he suddenly sent me a long pm apologising for everything... it was beautifully written and very polite and he wrote in the style of a gentleman... I was stunned and pleasantly surprised, and so I forgave him and felt less nervous around him after I realised there was a nice side to him.
At first I was a little sceptical if he was sincere with his kind apology after all the abuse I'd received in the past... but after a while I realised he was genuine and I believed he'd become a gentleman. I then noticed interesting and intellectual posts he made... and I thought he'd left all the childish insults behind him and had really changed into a nice person.
He behaved perfectly fine after that (as far as I'm aware - I can't speak for the views of others,) and he hasn't ever sent abuse to me again since he apologised. (This was long before I became a mod, so his apology was sincere and he was a nice person afterwards for several years.)
Then a week or so ago, I received a pm from CelestialSayer complaining about some abusive stuff he'd posted about her and her dad on a thread. I removed the insulting posts and told him I felt disappointed in him as I thought he'd changed.
I don't know why he's now targeting you... it's sad that some people feel a need to behave like this.
There is an angelic side in him.... but sadly I don't know what's come over him recently.
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