How many sexual partners did you have - fresh thread

[Incal]

If I'd never traveled and explore the world (and its women) my body count would be 5 lol

[Mopi Licinius Crassus]

[Immanenz]

I have displayed many of the characteristics, especially when I was a child and teenager. Maybe the only thing that is atypical for aspies is that I understand and often use humor, irony and sarcasm. I have had weird interests, awkward attempts to socialize, I used to talk a lot about topics which are niche and people don't care about. Only when I was in my early 20s I started to become more neurotypical but this was done through observance and logic and took a lot of effort.

you are more like Shizoid by Reich.

I think many humans are lost in symbolism or ideals (wishful thinking). It takes to reactive the animal in you to be fully human again.

Question to males in their mid-30s and beyond (40s, 50s included) with 20+ body count. Do you miss being a horny youngster 15-20 years ago? With age, gaining more maturity, status, experiencing more travel, relationships etc, access to sex becomes easier which is good, yes we earned it through the years, but it also just kills the excitement or thrill of pursuing sex we used to have as horny boys. Agreed?

i was not that horny when i was 16-22 tbh, i had 3 gf in that period. The crazy phase started 22 for a couple of years before i got into a more steady relationship again.

I certainly i wish i would be 18 with a carless/ ruthless atitute i have now.

[Oghuz]

I certainly i wish i would be 18 with a carless/ ruthless atitute i have now.

Agreed

[Oghuz]

I'm forty-three and my body count is fifteen or sixteen. All but four of those happened over a seventh-month period when I was nineteen. I had my heart broken and I acted out. It was an important experience. It showed me I could successfully play the 'One night Stan" game. It was a confidence builder but it wasn't enough. I look at the guys who play that game and are just interested in notches on their bedposts. i realize I tried it and it wasn't for me. That is better than wondering if I am "missing out".

Global male compulsion, keeps us going. I will tell you that 43 is younger than 53 which is younger than 63 if you catch my drift, but we are all built differently perhaps.

[~Elizabeth~]

[Oghuz]

I miss being in my 20s for many reasons
I had plenty of conquests in my 40s tbh
my run rate didnt really decline, as in many ways for a man it's easier to pull in your 30s and even 40s than when you're young (as you said)

I remember when I was young I would get a hard on just for looking at boobs from 50 meters away. I miss being that horny. Now when I can get sex any day it does kill the excitement.

Still horny but not thirsty or starved for it like it used to be, which lowers the excitement part. We agree.

Yes that is for many men the power of the pussy it compels them to do such things as make your feet bleed just to add that extra notch to the belt.

Rewarding injury for the horny teen. Never got out of the oxfords since then.

But it is that part of our nature that gives the pussy such great power, mastering such natures and diminishing that power is worthwhile also.
Women would not make millions on such places as Onlyfans if men didnt give the power of the pussy so much power.
Our nature to give this power is exploited as much as we objectify and exploit also.

The fact is without us Men the Pussy is nothing, its not nothing but its just a pussy and an attractive looking woman is just another human. Mens lust for sex with women is the only main factor that makes the Power of the Pussy a thing.

Read a quote somewhere related to this "Men are born but women are made (by men)". But mind you, these types of men are not your regular people with normal jobs or social skills. Incels are twisted fuckers to the core. I never understood the logic of men paying for onlyfans or any kind of virtual sex when they can use the same $$$ to pay whore(s) for actual experience, or just date, join a gym etc. Regular men love women and sex but they are not controlled or consumed by it.

That it is not really everything as you know all the excitement and initial interest -lust-compulsion-dissipates after ejaculation but again every one can interpret and manage things in their own way. Anyway your right the urges dont go away more managable.
I mean even when you are married if attractive girl walks by your eyes compel to look a bit but again you remain your position as a family man and you know you been there done that or something similiar any way lol.
I recall good old Anthony Bourdain use to say nothing like going out for a nice meal go back to his Hotel room jerk off then fall to sleep watching TV lol.

The key is to find a female version of yourself. A partner in crime .

[oszkar07]

Still horny but not thirsty or starved for it like it used to be, which lowers the excitement part. We agree.



Rewarding injury for the horny teen. Never got out of the oxfords since then.





Read a quote somewhere related to this "Men are born but women are made (by men)". But mind you, these types of men are not your regular people with normal jobs or social skills. Incels are twisted fuckers to the core. I never understood the logic of men paying for onlyfans or any kind of virtual sex when they can use the same $$$ to pay whore(s) for actual experience, or just date, join a gym etc. Regular men love women and sex but they are not controlled or consumed by it.



The key is to find a female version of yourself. A partner in crime .

Yeh. but don't forget there is 2 things men think about, "sex and food".

For choosing a wife its very important that she is a good cook, because when you have to be in jail for such a long sentence as in a 'Marriage",
You may as well be sure the jail has very good food !

but seriously Man Ive seen some cucked out married western men , not omly do they have to work their asses off 5 days a week at the grind - but top of that their western wife refuses or doesnt know how to cook, I had a co worker like that ... he told me at home he does all the cooking

[oszkar07]

Oghuz
Read a quote somewhere related to this "Men are born but women are made (by men)". But mind you, these types of men are not your regular people with normal jobs or social skills. Incels are twisted fuckers to the core. I never understood the logic of men paying for onlyfans or any kind of virtual sex when they can use the same $$$ to pay whore(s) for actual experience, or just date, join a gym etc. Regular men love women and sex but they are not controlled or consumed by it.
The key is to find a female version of yourself. A partner in crime .

Yes you can find that sexual chemistry to an extent in a partner.
Ive had female partners that had some strong sex drives but none of them when I was a younger man matched mine.

Also I think the compulsion you were talking about in men relates to when men are single or not seriously committed and they
feel to try different types of women sex partners.

Women can have high sex drives and some woman's approach to sex can be like a male's.

But on average men and women are different. when comes to sex on average men have the higher sex drive.

And for many women there is a political aspect to sex- it wields power for them they expect some thing for it
like being wined and dined or treated to some certain favours.

For men in general there is no political aspect it is simply about the experience - perhaps this is why we are using the word "compulsion", men are compelled to have the experience, "she's up all night for this song, he's up all night to get lucky".

We have all heard that phrase "power of the pussy", but we have never heard "power of the dick", because in general women dont really care that much about dicks.

some ladies might go through a phase when they are into Dicks but its not like the constant way men are into Pussy and Tits and Ass.
Generally speaking Men are consistent with their feeling about sex whilst many or maybe most women are fickle in their approach to sex ...eg in the next 10 minutes she was horny and open to fuking , but a few minutes after that timeframe she lost the urge and changed her mind.

Women are changeable with sex and its all about the timing - u could say timing is everything, men are constant.

[BakersfieldChimp]

Global male compulsion, keeps us going. I will tell you that 43 is younger than 53 which is younger than 63 if you catch my drift, but we are all built differently perhaps.

We don't get older we get dismantled. When I look at the follies of my youth, I look at them as shaping my being as opposed to regret.