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    Default How To Deal With Fanatic Parents?

    My parents are ultra-fanatic, they cannot see reality anymore, they are totally blinded by religious extremism.
    When my sister got depression( and likely other mental problems) they didn't made an enough effort to change the situation, they just put everything on God's account.
    Nowadays, my sister is still mentally unstable and have two kids that she is not able to take care, of course.
    My brother is also on the same situation and today he was internated in a hospital because he went crazy. Again, my parents did nothing to change the situation when they could, they throwed the responsibility on God.
    I am also very mentally disabled and physically as well.
    I will end like my brother if i don't take an action.
    But i have no idea what to do, like good fanatics, they will probably never change their blinded minds. What should i do? Please, i need help!
    To take a note: I don't hate religions, my problem is with fanatism alone.
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    Sorry, I have been in the same situation. A large number of my family are practically ISIS-lite. For some reason Indian Muslims are way nuttier than Pakistani/MENA Muslims.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Akira View Post
    Sorry, I have been in the same situation. A large number of my family are practically ISIS-lite. For some reason Indian Muslims are way nuttier than Pakistani/MENA Muslims.
    i imagine the mental torture you have suffered, my friend

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    OP I wish I could offer advice, but I know how difficult it can be to negotiate with these kinds of braindead morons.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Akira View Post
    OP I wish I could offer advice, but I know how difficult it can be to negotiate with these kinds of braindead morons.
    I just asked for demission at my job today in hope that it would make they open their eyes at least a bit and see that i need help but it didn't work as well. It was probably a bad move but we need to risk sometimes and i desperated

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jolsonaro View Post
    I just asked for demission at my job today in hope that it would make they open their eyes at least a bit and see that i need help but it didn't work as well. It was probably a bad move but we need to risk sometimes and i desperated
    I wish you luck my triracial friend.

    Have you thought about moving away? Kids I know in my family who are stuck under such parents do their best to escape the household. You cannot reason with mentally ill people I know this as a indian

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    Quote Originally Posted by Akira View Post
    I wish you luck my triracial friend.

    Have you thought about moving away? Kids I know in my family who are stuck under such parents do their best to escape the household. You cannot reason with mentally ill people I know this as a indian
    Where did you get that i am triracial, though?lol
    Moving away maybe would be a good idea but i don't have much money

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jolsonaro View Post
    Where did you get that i am triracial, though?lol
    Moving away maybe would be a good idea but i don't have much money
    you are brazilian

    save up enough to move away then do it or get a job somewhere else idk how it works in brazil

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    That sucks, man, but you can't change them, the only person you can change is yourself.
    Family can be the best thing in the world, but also the worst (I'm not saying yours is the case).

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    Oeff man, I normally troll here, but this seem serious. Anyways I hope everything will go all right. There is just one thing I could advice you, and that's saying to your parents you want to talk to them very seriously at certain time, make sure they see the seriousity there, and tell them what are you upset with and in what ways you dislike them.

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