Prostitution deals psychological damage upon men

[Óttar]

A double standard would imply that men and women are the same which is not true, so there is no double standard, only the lie that there are no differences between the sexes.

This. It's infinitely easier for the average woman to get laid than the average man, so it's not a fair comparison. Do men really have the advantage when many men have to pay $200+ to get guaran-damn-teed laid while a woman has to merely exist? Of course not.

[Ylla]

Pigling, you are overthinking this losing your virginity as man is not the samething as a woman. Jerking off is a cheap McDonald's hamburger and banging a prostitute is a a better more expensive T-Bone steak.

For some guys cool but op is clearly unsure about it and uncomfortable.. So what kind of sex will he have exactly ?
he will have much more enjoyable and meaningful experience with a nice woman who likes him back

[Lousianaboy]

I'm 25 year old male virgin with Asperger's neurobiological disorder.

For most of my life I didn't know that I have sort of mild autism and was thinking that I'm just weird, a bit physically awkward and eccentric.

I had only one exclusively online (completely asexual) relationship.
I could live the same situation but a girl came to me, im Asperger and obsessive
Many people told me that I should lose virginity with prostitute, but when I just think about that I start feeling pathetic and helpless.

I have some strong feeling in me that sexual intercourse with prostitute, but even one night stand experience would deal huge psychological damage upon myself and that my mental health could be even more damaged after that, so I rather choose to remain virgin until I find long term partner, I mean if that let's hope ever happens.

Also I believe that men who use material wealth to get sex are not alpha as they and many people around them believe, but are just pathetic.

What do you think about that?

[TheOldNorth]

A lack of sex can cause a man to be mentally unhealthy as well, but I suggest loosing your virginity to someone you actually have feelings for though, as it’ll mean more and be better overall from what I’ve heard though I myself am still a virgin

[JamesBond007]

For some guys cool but op is clearly unsure about it and uncomfortable.. So what kind of sex will he have exactly ?
he will have much more enjoyable and meaningful experience with a nice woman who likes him back

The slam bam thank you mam, kind. Prostitute will almost immediately start sucking dick, like an expert, then he will put on a condom then hopefully screw her doggy style until he finishes.

[Insuperable]

It's just my subjective feeling.

For normal neurotypical males that have reasonable decent odds to easily find a partner is not problem, but for those like us it's completely different.

I know that many people have problems like me and they feel lost like I felt for years before I didn't get to know I'm high functioning autist and what is core cause of majority issues in live, such as bullying during childhood/teenage period, social isolation, later on all those verbal conflicts where people who didn't understand my condition called me spoiled, lazy, oversensitive, coward, even insulted my family by saying it's their mistake that made me like this.

That's the reason I talk about my condition to maybe help someone.

Three months later

Spoiler!

[Numidia]

In your case it will certainly affect your self esteem and confidence you don't even need it

[Dna8]

@ Thread Father

Are there any glimmers of my friend I described, which resonate with you, personally?

[Annie999]

One night stands are basically like getting a hooker except you don't pay the girl, you pay the nightclub and the cab driver. Are they psychologically damaging?

It really depends on who you are, some men can handle it some can't. To enjoy it you need to really fuck the girl, the more aggressive the better, treat her like the worthless cunt she is. You get a nice power high and really that's the best there is to it.

Girls that do one night stands are basically prostitutes and if you don't treat them like so, you will indeed feel like shit afterwards.

Just because you're autistic doesn't mean you can't be a man, I know you guys are sensitive but you need to become stronger either way. Make sure to get a nice religious girl to marry, but even then you need to be strong and dealing with adversity is the only way to get there.

In one night stands the girls also have fun and a true sexual interation is created between the couple. With prostitutes the men just do their thing and the prosttutes act just to get the money. There is no comparison between one and the other.

[The Lawspeaker]

Still: I think he should do it within the confines of a loving stable relationship. Particularly if it involves rings.