My theory on dating

[pajkosbalna]

I think the theory holds true despite our personal preferences on here (Im also not interested in married men etc) I think our views here are slightly "out of the ordinary" compared to in general.
Or it could simply mean that men in relationships have more desirable qualities anyway before they entered a relationship. But it doesn't explain why people (men and women) suddenly become much more appealing once they are taken. That's why I assume its primal, in order to increase competition maybe?

I think that is the key. Women compete in many aspects, hair, makeup, nr of likes...why dating would be different? And i think all of us does bc its primal as you said, just the level is different.

[Celestia]

I think women with issues are like this. I am turned off if a man I’m interested in is flirting with other women while with me.

I tend to judge suitable partners by how our personal chemistry is when we’re interacting. I’m not sure if this is solid or not. I’m a bit of a romantic.

+1

Men with girlfriends are off limits, why even waste time? plus I wouldn't want someone trying to go after my man if the roles were reversed.

[Trouble]

Well done, you are the billionth guy in the world to figure this out.

[TheOldNorth]

I think if girls notice that other girls don't want you they are turned off but if you have a girlfriend they start liking you

Women like status, a man with a girl has more status then one without