Would you feel depressed if you look liked your unattractive parent?

[Aldaris]

So what? What's the point in taking that comment to heart, regardless of who said it?

It's not like they're making the choice, but they're generally kinda lazy to change that if that's the issue for them. There's no point, it's just comfortable. Not to be mean towards the OP, if he'd be willing to listen, that's just good for him.