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Passive aggressiveness is possible on the internet you can see it all the time, avoiding confrontation and being underhanded isn't inherent to internet discussions imo.
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No. Passive aggressiveness is an inherently weak trait and it shows clearly on people, online and in person. What it screams is:
"I've got a burning but possibly controversial opinion in my head I want to share, but i'm too afraid to type it out because I can't deal with any possible opposition and don't want to start a conflict that could bring down my self esteem, I also don't want to be proven wrong. Instead of being direct, i'll take out my frustrations of not speaking out on others and leak it out slowly and dirtily, interrupting the normal flow of the conversation and being underhanded so I don't get called out, while not getting my point across in full".
Sure you can call it moralist, it's human nature not to start conflicts (particularly physical) with people who we deem to be more able than ourselves. But you can tell a lot about a person and their self value and confidence based on whether they're passive aggressive or not.
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Coping mechanism is with you
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Confrontation and directness is healthy. If I don't like someone I don't go and gossip about them, try to get one over on them etc. I tell them they are a cunt and move on. Passive aggressiveness is like what girls in highschool do to piss off the girl who stole the boy they like, it's just not honorable or manly behavior. For instance when people mutter stuff so they don't get knocked out in person, there is nothing strong about that. If you don't like someone don't talk to them or confront them. Irl we just duke it out. If I say some stupid shit in person, I expect to get my ass kicked or to kick someones ass. This hearkens back to my post about soccer players taking dives and being passive aggressive. It's just a bitch move, it's like what snitches and rats do; real men stand up for what they believe in even it's wrong, stupid or petty.
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I have a lot of respect for middle eastern peoples, especially the non-like immigrant gangster wanna be types, like real traditional Arabs; they have a good set of values in regards to honor and respect. I like dealing with people like that. That's why I have a few stories about Saudis etc. because I do respect the good Arabs regardless of differences. Why I am glad I live in America because we never get those types of Arabs and the ones we do are surprisingly Christians. Arab Christians are the only real criminal segment I can think of especially Chaldeans. Kurds are kind of shitty here too, they hang out with other minorities or their own and separate themselves from whites. It's a really weird ass dynamic.
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