The PornHub Problem

[The Lawspeaker]

There's a PornHub problem. I describe it, am nuanced about it, and offer a possible solution. Also available as a podcast. Search for Just Thinking Out Loud in your favorite podcast directory. FURTHER READING: I didn't get around to including this in the video, but as a comparison for the views that PornHub gets. https://www.omnicoreagency.com/youtub... - https://www.change.org/p/mindgeek-sex... - https://humanevents.com/2020/03/01/po... I think porn's effect on society as a whole is bad. This doesn't mean I think the essence of porn is bad (as porn ranges from pinup posters to explicit intimate encounters being shared, to exploration of fantasy [which I think is useful, including 'negative' fantasy]) but that porn as a whole, practically speaking, has a negative effect on society. This isn't what the video was about, so I didn't really get into that. And it's subjective, but here are some links that delve into that: - https://fightthenewdrug.org/get-the-f... - https://fightthenewdrug.org/how-porn-... - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/bl... Zero-knowledge Artificial Neural Network (ZKANN) https://medium.com/swlh/zkann-a-possi... Women I mentioned who I follow: https://twitter.com/RoseKalemba https://twitter.com/LailaMickelwait Related video: "Is Porn Free Speech?" https://youtu.be/nPgPElFEsnM

[Renekton]

I stopped watching porn a year ago. It was my best decision ever made!!

[JamesBond007]

LOL, porn puts the wrong idea in teenagers' and losers' heads like Mortimer. Sex with real women is rarely like it is in porn if ever. It is also pathetic because most of the time men are jerking off to other men actually have sex etc.. there are other problematic things with it too.

[Bosniensis]

#BlackPornMatters

PornHub will have to eventually regulate it's content like YouTube she is right.

[Terminator98]

Porn movies are not necessarily bad if they are not taken seriously. Unfortunately, 90% of guys who watch them do it too much and (naturally) get used to them, also after so much time spent on porn sites they lose idea what real life (and real sex) is.

In other words, watching excessive porn changes the way the brain processes sexual arousal and activity, often leading to desensitization that lowers libido and causes psychological erectile dysfunction. Some say that men who watch too much porn can develop performance anxiety.

As I said, main problem is moderation, not porns or any other thing which can lead to addiction (almost everything).

[JamesBond007]

Porn movies are not necessarily bad if they are not taken seriously. Unfortunately, 90% of guys who watch them do it too much and (naturally) get used to them, also after so much time spent on porn sites they lose idea what real life (and real sex) is.

Depends on how many women they have slept with . I think average amount of women the American man has sex with before he settles down is below ten. I've had about 30 different women (not an extreme amount) and some of them I had sex with on more than one occasion so I am really good at sex . Some women claim they can't orgasm but give me two fingers and a my tongue I can make 99% of women orgasm also the last woman I was with said I was "really good with my hands". In otherwords I banged so many bitches including sluts (sluts can train you to be a master sex more than normal women as long as they are too insane like being choked too hard etc..) that I'm never going to lose the idea of how to have 'real sex'.

As I said, main problem is moderation, not porns or any other thing which can lead to addiction (almost everything).

Porn gives men the ideas such as they all need to have like 12 inch donkey dicks instead realizing hmmmm.. maybe I should be good with my hands and tongue but not so much tongue (since porn shows that to some degree) but since porn does show real sex they kind of skip the good with the hands part etc.... and cut right to the chase. Porn also gives men the idea that sex tends to be rougher than it is on average though some sluts in real life can like it kind of rough but porn just a different quality in general.

Anyway, about moderation : jerking off is bad because it zaps your motivation to chase real women more or less if you do it a lot.

[Daco Celtic]

^^^
40 year old virgin

[El_Abominacion]

Porn addiction is so underplayed that it's worrying.

People addicted to porn develop unhealthy ideas about what sex and relationships as a whole entail, they'll get bored of watching mediocre sex and more on to more and more hardcore stuff to satisfy themselves. When (or if) they enter relationships with other people, they lack satisfaction because of the false ideas planted into their heads about what sex really should be like. This forum member explained his own experience, a common example of what porn addiction does. There is almost NO GOING BACK once you've watched enough.
https://www.theapricity.com/forum/sh...-down-sexually

[walid]

i just watched porn and had a premature ejaculation

[Gründig]

Nothing wrong with having a quick jerk niiiiice