Love or Attachment

**~~zebruh~~** · 09-17-2020, 11:26 PM

**Ruggery** · 09-17-2020, 11:28 PM

Originally Posted by stellan

exactly, obviously i want a guy who's nice and a good person, but when he starts to use being a "nice guy" to his advantage that's where it gets really annoying. like my boyfriend will guilt trip me a lot of the time.

How do you like boys? I mean attitude, not physical.

**stellan** · 09-17-2020, 11:41 PM

Originally Posted by Ruggery

How do you like boys? I mean attitude, not physical.

if they have a similar sense of humor as me, authoritative, caring, not boring or too shy

**Mortimer** · 09-18-2020, 04:28 AM

I call that first world problem, thats why it doesnt work out in many relationships and there are many divorced couples and single households, but yeah it is also terrible that we need to stay with someone we do not like anymore. It can happen, that we do not love them anymore. Nowadays we can easy break up, in the past we were forced to stay together, especially the women had to tolerate lots of stuff because they were financially dependent on the man. I think you should talk to him about it, and try to fresh up your relationship, you should give it a chance, maybe it is just a mood that you feel like that. But if it continues and grows stronger, you should maybe break up.