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    Quote Originally Posted by Peterski View Post
    What do you mean by "I can be kinda toxic at times" and "we want completely different things out of our lives"? Can you expand and elaborate more on these two issues?
    what i meant is that sometimes i can be toxic bc i have a hard time empathizing with people (i'm working on it tho) and he's a lot more emotional than i am so sometimes I'll get mad at him for feeling a certain way. i have gotten better at not doing this but it's still something i struggle with. and what i mean by we want different things is that he sees me in his future but im not sure if i see him in mine.

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    Quote Originally Posted by stellan View Post
    what i meant is that sometimes i can be toxic bc i have a hard time empathizing with people (i'm working on it tho) and he's a lot more emotional than i am so sometimes I'll get mad at him for feeling a certain way. i have gotten better at not doing this but it's still something i struggle with. and what i mean by we want different things is that he sees me in his future but im not sure if i see him in mine.
    Women hate emotional, clingy types of men that act like girls so this frustration is normal. Society dictates he’s the perfect partner cause he’s safe, passive and not even assertive, but in reality that’s a massive turn off for any woman alive. You can’t be sexually attracted to a complete simp, it just doesn’t work like that

    Think about whether you actually love him, and if you do whether he’s worth staying with in the long run. He sounds like the type of guy women settle for when they’re much older, you’re still young

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    Sounds like a relationship that is coming to an end.

    I think it's good that you are looking inside yourself, working on yourself, and not putting the onus solely on him for the deterioration of the relationship.

    And I don't believe you should ever attempt to train or to change your partner. Good communication and growing naturally, yes that's very important, but you cannot change someone at the core of who they are. When I start hearing people say things like, 'You don't love me for who I really am.' then I think that the couple is probably no longer a good match.

    An expression I like is, 'The grass is always greener.' What I mean by that is that no partner is ever going to be perfect, none of us are, but you should really like them at their core. Other details can be sorted, but not that one.

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    Break up with him before you start getting on each others nerves, there is no point staying in a relationship where you don't or can't respect each others differences.

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    If you aren't attracted to him, there is basically no reason to remain in the relationship. You guys aren't some 25 years married couple with kids that you have to think "oh well its too late now", you are still young and should probably be in a relationship that you enjoy or are comfortable with.
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    Quote Originally Posted by El_Abominacion View Post
    Women hate emotional, clingy types of men that act like girls so this frustration is normal. Society dictates he’s the perfect partner cause he’s safe, passive and not even assertive, but in reality that’s a massive turn off for any woman alive. You can’t be sexually attracted to a complete simp, it just doesn’t work like that

    Think about whether you actually love him, and if you do whether he’s worth staying with in the long run. He sounds like the type of guy women settle for when they’re much older, you’re still young
    that's what i was thinking too, two years ago i really liked him but now my taste has changed a bit and i've realized that he isn't really what i want in a man

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    Well you should do what your heart feels, but you should also talk to him, maybe you are not in love but he yes, if you should let him know now before it is later and you hurt him.

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    What does he think of you becoming a model?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Faklon View Post
    What does he think of you becoming a model?
    i don't think he cares but maybe he should since there will be people like Mortimer asking me for booty pics according to you

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    Quote Originally Posted by stellan View Post
    i don't think he cares but maybe he should since there will be people like Mortimer asking me for booty pics according to you
    dump him then

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