I'm afraid of women

[Óttar]

shit tests come with the package. btw its SO fucked to think only women shit test you. Its human nature. I used to have a managerial position at this corporate job. I look intimidating AF. But once you get to know me, you realize Im actually a sweet soul, just have standards. So many employees (mostly male) would start shit testing me, trying to get away with more and more...longer breaks, less punctual, resulting in me losing it on them.

The more I think about it, there are very few concrete gender (x) ...where x is some quality. its rather, qualities, period without any gender attached. People have been bamboozled. You by pick up artist and MGTOW talk, I can tell. btw, I had more success with women than anybody I know here or IRL...and its not about being a pua, its because I studied human nature. IRL I can tell when a woman likes in 10 seconds without any words said, when a guy is intimidated by me, when someone wants to fight me, etc etc.

There are only humans, to sum it up

Women definitely make things unnecessarily complicated. There is a reason why they coined the term "shit-test" in reference to women. I find women online to be incredibly belligerent and pugnacious. It's like they are ready for a fight. I assume that in human interactions, people generally want to get along, then why is it so easy for correspondence between men and women to devolve into arguments ? It's almost like, if there's no drama, don't worry because they will figure out a way to create some.

[War Chef]

^I wish women here would acknowledge the shit test. It is SO SO real you can't convince me that it isn't a thing.
If she's doing it though, it's a good sign. She wouldn't feel the need to test you if she wasn't interested or saw in you something.

[Óttar]

^I wish women here would acknowledge the shit test. It is SO SO real you can't convince me that it isn't a thing.
If she's doing it though, it's a good sign. She wouldn't feel the need to test you if she wasn't interested or saw in you something.

That's what I've heard, but I'm really bad at doing the whole, cocky-funny, flirty thing. I'm really straightforward. I can be funny, but usually my speech and demeanor is monotone. When a woman shit-tests me, I can't come back with a zinger that diffuses the tension. I get frustrated. Like that sunken feeling you get right before you cry. I feel that. It sucks.

And like, so what if I feel insecure? I honestly don't know how a man can think he's going to be victorious when he has to compete with 1,000 rival males for a woman's attention all the time.

[Celestia]

Lol typical behavior from both sides.

It’s amazing how immature we can get when sex and emotions become involved.
And I’m including myself in that

^I wish women here would acknowledge the shit test. It is SO SO real you can't convince me that it isn't a thing.
If she's doing it though, it's a good sign. She wouldn't feel the need to test you if she wasn't interested or saw in you something.

As I’ve discussed with you before, women do these mental tests only to reassure themselves the guy actually cares.
We tend to do this with guys that aren’t emotionally expressive or guys that try and act like a tough guy with no feelings.

[Trouble]

As I’ve discussed with you before, women do these mental tests only to reassure themselves the guy actually cares.
We tend to do this with guys that aren’t emotionally expressive or guys that try and act like a tough guy with no feelings.

That's not true, they also do it with guys that they are attracted to but "off" in some way, whether not strong enough emotionally, quirky, awkward, or all of the above. You will not see them engaging in this sort of behavior with their ideal mates because they don't need to. Or if they do, it's done differently.

[Celestia]

That's not true, they also do it with guys that they are attracted to but "off" in some way, whether not strong enough emotionally, quirky, awkward, or all of the above. You will not see them engaging in this sort of behavior with their ideal mates because they don't need to. Or if they do, it's done differently.

Maybe. I was more so speaking personally. I’ve only tested guys I really liked and was unsure if it was mutual.

[Trouble]

Maybe. I was more so speaking personally. I’ve only tested guys I really liked and was unsure if it was mutual.

I do this too

[War Chef]

That's not true, they also do it with guys that they are attracted to but "off" in some way, whether not strong enough emotionally, quirky, awkward, or all of the above. You will not see them engaging in this sort of behavior with their ideal mates because they don't need to. Or if they do, it's done differently.

Yeah if she likes you likes you she isn't gonna play no games and make it difficult for you... instead she'd just give it up... Maybe I dunno.... don't have a vag (I think?) so can't really comment.

I have been drinking a lot of soy though

[Celestia]

Yeah if she likes you likes you she isn't gonna play no games and make it difficult for you... instead she'd just give it up... Maybe I dunno.... don't have a vag (I think?) so can't really comment.

I have been drinking a lot of soy though

oh. yeah I wasn't referring to testing in a sexual way lol. If I'm into the guy I will let him know. I think most women do. Some might play the hard to get card but I find that a bit childish.

[PaleoEuropean]

Having been in a few abusive relationship (not physical) but the type where she tests you & exploits any weaknesses you have to use against you or be all like "you act like a boy, be man you bitch", I am afraid of women. Also I had plenty of female co-workers who I thought were my friends but would all gang up with each-other behind my back and try to oust me. Any way out of this besides just turning gay? Serious question.

You don't have to be gay: T R A P S