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You don't seem to understand. There are millions of people with a job who barely survive. Or live in rented dog house flats.
We aren't talking about him being investment banker, but having any kind of job.
Him having a job and a house won't mean he will be rich, he won't, he'll barely make his ends meet. But he will be able to live normal life.
USA is not southern Europe, where living with parents is normal (in my country up to three generations in one house), in USA middle aged guy still living with parents is seen as anomaly, as weirdo. It's a major red flag.
But if he likes his parents so much he can renovate house they live in and make his own separate part -not a bad option either. That way he can still be near them but have his own privacy and his own space.
But not working - that's not a red flag, that is automatic turn down. Why should any woman date a guy not working? Who will provide for their kids, she? His parents?
If he loved his parents he would work, you think it's fair to depend on them financially after they worked all their life to raise him as a good man?
He should be financing them, not the opposite.
Not working in society where work was always highly valued is simply without excuse. No adult can respect himself, especially a male, if he isn't earning his own bread. Neither can women respect such man, it's against very law of nature. He can chose not to work but than he should not expect women.
I would date a guy living with his parents if I really liked him (most women wouldn't though), but I would never date a guy not working.
We are not taking about unfortunate guy who lost his job, but long term unemployment without excuse.
It's not that hard. He can have a job and than offer his love and talents to women.
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You are really masochistic to open such a thread brother, because you already know the answers that await you and even which users they will come from. After 7 pages of replies like these I would seriously hang myself. If until now women have not shown interest in you, it is clearly because you are not good-looking for their taste, and I highly doubt they will show interest in you in the future. Don't listen to what others say, it's the look that counts and not the personality, BUT this is true when you are a teenager or young adult. At the age of 40, what matters to a woman (especially if she spent her youth sucking Chad's cocks) is the wallet, the financial situation or the career you have managed to build all these years. A 20-year-old girl would happily get engaged to a handsome boy of the same age without a job and no "future"... but at 40 that's no longer the case. They will tell you that having a job, money, a house and a career are the basis for a 40-year-old man looking for a partner (which is obvious), but a woman without these requirements would still find a man without problems and the man would certainly not be so selective. Women are much more selective today, but they have always been for millions of years. And you shouldn't be too selective either, brother. What do you prefer, a woman "like you" who loves you or die alone? I would choose the first one. Regardless of all this, the advice I can give you is: don't think about women anymore, think about yourself and improve yourself first. They will say "you are lazy", "you are choosy" or "grow up" but everyone has different experiences in their life and you never know what a person has been through and what keeps them down. Seriously, nobody can know what the fuck is going on in a person's head and all their problems. And don't even listen to those who tell you to lose weight, losing weight won't change shit in your life because the "head" always remains the same, trust a person who has lost more than 175 lbs and is worse off than before in terms of mental health, to such an extent that I don't even know if I'll make it to your age.
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You don´t understand how love works, sad...
It is not a merit competition, it is a connection of souls, it is not a formal agreement, it is something that cannot be renounced.
When you love, no logical reason or common sense can separate us from the person we love.
What you tell me is not love, it is a mutual collaboration contract to have a common project.
The love of which I speak is a matter of study of the arts, the love of which you speak seems a subject of economics.
Do projects? budgets? Future plans? Money? How many children can we afford?
When you love, there is no future, no past, there is only the present.
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It is not uncommon at all for a man in his 30s/40s to live with his parents in the US, as long as your parents themselves have a home you can live in. The US is not the kind of place a person can just expect to find a job that pays the rent. He's lucky enough to have parents with a home.
You are missing the point that it would be nice if a person could expect that he might meet a person willing to fall in love with him based on mutual interests and sensibilities and so on, and not just as some sort of 1950s guy who's there just to take care of her.
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Even bums are slaying women, but you need to be masculine; you don't even need to be attractive. All that personality, and money, whatever it is, is just BS. Women like dominant and masculine men. That's it.
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It's a blessing to be single, man. You will save money because you are only going buy for yourself, whether it's food or other items. You are free to do and go everywhere you want, at any time or place without worrying what your significant other thinks and you will always be your number 1 priority. Also, on a side note. If women find you repulsive, chances are, they are going to leave you alone which makes it almost impossible for you to become a victim of #Metoo so count your blessings, man.
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