Blackpill: Women find me repulsive

**JosephK** · 10-20-2020, 05:39 PM

It's not your fatness that's the problem, since (at least American) women seem to be attracted to big guys. It's your attitude, but there isn't much you can do about that. Women like aggressive guys with confidence, but confidence is only obtained if enough women like you.

In short, it's not you, it's them. In a decent world any guy could eventually find a woman that likes him, and there would be plenty of women interested in a sensitive and musical guy, but that was before we decided it's better for women to judge men superficially.

**InfamousAngel99** · 10-20-2020, 06:22 PM

You are looking so deeply into the situation regarding your looks that you're missing the more pressing issues as to why more women don't find you attractive.
Most women that I know, myself included, care more about personality. And your opening post on this thread, as well as some of your previous posts, have proven a few things to me:

1. You're very negative and close-minded. That will push a lot of women away.
2. You're obsessed with minor issues regarding your appearance. Sure, it's important to maintain a healthy weight and keep your skin as clear as possible, but blue eyes? Dude, whether or not you have blue eyes will not impact most women's attraction to you, so I wouldn't even think about that. Plus, your eye color is beyond your control. Don't sweat it.

If I'm being completely honest, I think you're struggling with women because of your personality more than anything else. I mean, in your opening paragraph, you admit that some women have claimed to be attracted to you, but you immediately disregarded them by saying; "The only ones who don't [find me repulsive] are desperate women, or ones that are unattractive. While I did get matches on Tinder [...] I can't be assured those aren't fake profiles or even transgenders."

Also, you said, "If I were good looking, I would have a job by now or be a successful musician."
Unless you're trying to be a model or something else in which you'll be showing your face to massive crowds of people, most employers do not care about looks. This issue also probably stems from some issues with your personality.

**~~Ascended~~** · 10-20-2020, 06:32 PM

These are NOT things a 40+ year old should dwell on. There's a saying: by 40 you get the face you deserve. And you're actually limiting your potential dwelling on such adoloscent things. Do you think Donald Trump is attractive? He just had drive and ambition, and thus had a pick of women. You're not hideous like Harvey Weinstein, so this is some weird way of thinking.

There are handsome 40+ year olds who are getting NO women either because they are bums, or broke. So wake the fake up and be more in tune with reality

**Ylla** · 10-20-2020, 07:42 PM

Originally Posted by Mortimer

Am I the only one who thinks he is not that fat? I think look is not what holds him back

I think because his natural build is already quite bulky it would be better with less weight, but you're right maybe his pessimistic attitude is also holding him back (based on his posting here).

**Celestia** · 10-20-2020, 07:53 PM

Originally Posted by Ascended

These are NOT things a 40+ year old should dwell on. There's a saying: by 40 you get the face you deserve. And you're actually limiting your potential dwelling on such adoloscent things. Do you think Donald Trump is attractive? He just had drive and ambition, and thus had a pick of women. You're not hideous like Harvey Weinstein, so this is some weird way of thinking.

There are handsome 40+ year olds who are getting NO women either because they are bums, or broke. So wake the fake up and be more in tune with reality

Damn lol.
This is all straight facts

**Hoosierboy** · 10-20-2020, 07:58 PM

Originally Posted by Richmondbread

I'm not sure why but I have come to the conclusion that a majority of women find me repulsive, at least physically. The only ones who don't are desperate women, or ones that are unattractive.

A little advice for you buddy, beggers can't be choosers.

**~~War Chef~~** · 10-20-2020, 08:06 PM

Seriously dude who cares? The only thing I care about is money (because it buys freedom) and the spiritual liberation that comes with that. Women are a nice bonus if they're around. But if they critically impede my cash-flow I will cut them off!

**lei.talk** · 10-20-2020, 08:29 PM

occasionally the truth slips out:

**Insuperable** · 10-20-2020, 08:39 PM

Stop whining.

**Ylla** · 10-20-2020, 09:15 PM

Tbh he looks fine, I'm just jumping on the bandwagon by addressing his appearance and he also seems unhappy about it. But it's something that shouldn't be prioritized at his age, there are less shallow attributes of a person that are more important.
Truth is we don't know you so can't offer good advice it's up to you to figure out why you're unsuccessful.