Am I ugly?

**Mortimer** · 10-23-2020, 04:11 AM

I asked this before, but only males responded in a way that they were joking with me. Women didnt responded, but now Im again inspired because of my other discussion. I said a friend of mine says that Im "good looking" some think she is only being friendly, and it seems they think Im ugly or at least something is not ok with my look that someone needs to be friendly or pitty me, that I dont look good.

Originally Posted by TheMaestro

She is being friendly, would you say to your very good friend that he is ugly? Lol, no, you would tell him he looks good to boost his ego.

Now I consider myself average, not ugly, not good looking, but slightly datable, especially at my age, maybe not at 20 but at my age most males have a beer belly and only teen girls admire very hot muscular guys, usually women 30 years old or + are ok with someone who is a bit big or not that hot.

Please only serious replies, and I hope women reply too Celestia, Ylla, metalaphrodite, they have usually good advice are honest, and are talkative. But males should respond too if they have a opinion and are not trolling me.

**Tannhauser** · 10-23-2020, 04:14 AM

Who cares, you are a legend!

**Tarlus Magnus** · 10-23-2020, 05:16 AM

Originally Posted by Mortimer

I asked this before, but only males responded in a way that they were joking with me. Women didnt responded, but now Im again inspired because of my other discussion. I said a friend of mine says that Im "good looking" some think she is only being friendly, and it seems they think Im ugly or at least something is not ok with my look that someone needs to be friendly or pitty me, that I dont look good.

Now I consider myself average, not ugly, not good looking, but slightly datable, especially at my age, maybe not at 20 but at my age most males have a beer belly and only teen girls admire very hot muscular guys, usually women 30 years old or + are ok with someone who is a bit big or not that hot.

Please only serious replies, and I hope women reply too Celestia, Ylla, metalaphrodite, they have usually good advice are honest, and are talkative. But males should respond too if they have a opinion and are not trolling me.

Ye you're ugly

Sent from my ALE-L21 using Tapatalk

**Tarlus Magnus** · 10-23-2020, 05:16 AM

Originally Posted by Tannhauser

Who cares, you are a legend!

Exactly

Sent from my ALE-L21 using Tapatalk

**~~Ascended~~** · 10-23-2020, 05:34 AM

Facially no, but you're so obese that you are disqualified. Being honest bro. Atleast not as obese as before, but you could lose more weight, I remember you asking weight loss advice even back in 2015 etc

If you were slim you might even be a heart throb.

For myself, I am considered "sexy" idk why, but women are drawn to me even when I dont try. I think I have a 'primal' lure like something in my aura is too irresistable to women. Being very sincere and I have broken alot of hearts since my marriage without meaning to.

**Mortimer** · 10-23-2020, 05:36 AM

Originally Posted by Ascended

Facially no, but you're so obese that you are disqualified. Being honest bro. Atleast not as obese as before, but you could lose more weight, I remember you asking weight loss advice even back in 2015 etc

I should lose more weight yes. But I lost 35kg so far. That is certainly alot too. I should lose more though.

35 kg = 77 pounds, maybe if i say it in pounds people will see how much that is

**~~Ascended~~** · 10-23-2020, 05:39 AM

Originally Posted by Mortimer

I should lose more weight yes. But I lost 35kg so far. That is certainly alot too. I should lose more though.

35 kg = 77 pounds, maybe if i say it in pounds people will see how much that is

that is amazing. You are 1.74 i recall? you should aim for 160-180 lbs or 70-80 kgs IMO

**Mortimer** · 10-23-2020, 05:39 AM

Originally Posted by Ascended

Facially no, but you're so obese that you are disqualified. Being honest bro. Atleast not as obese as before, but you could lose more weight, I remember you asking weight loss advice even back in 2015 etc

If you were slim you might even be a heart throb.

For myself, I am considered "sexy" idk why, but women are drawn to me even when I dont try. I think I am handsome in a strange way or something because I have to be careful not to seduce women or fall into a trap or fitna. Being very sincere and I have broken alot of hearts since my marriage without meaning to.

I agree about you. I think you are sexy. Im honest and serious. You are tall and lean muscular, you have also facially good face, and I think the beard suits you.

**Mortimer** · 10-23-2020, 05:40 AM

Originally Posted by Ascended

that is amazing. You are 1.74 i recall? you should aim for 160-180 lbs or 70-80 kgs IMO

yes bro. thanks. i need to work more on it. but i guess it takes some more time.

**~~Ascended~~** · 10-23-2020, 05:47 AM

You also need to work on your libido. You need to want to get laid, women sense impotence. Im serious...eat alot of beef liver. Dont smoke cigarettes, and also be verbally aggressive with women and treat them like children. You will start get aroused soon

My own libido is not like before, but when I do this with my wife it returns. Also I am always angry and full of rage and I use sex as a compensation. You have to be angry and volatile, like Mike Tyson.