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    The happiness is just a bait that keeps us in the race until the end of life.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Seya View Post
    I think humans aren't made to be happy.
    You would be correct :

    “There is only one inborn error, and that is the notion that we exist in order to be happy... So long as we persist in this inborn error... the world seems to us full of contradictions. For at every step, in things great and small, we are bound to experience that the world and life are certainly not arranged for the purpose of maintaining a happy existence... hence the countenances of almost all elderly persons wear the expression of what is called disappointment.” ― Arthur Schopenhauer


    He who has taken to heart the teaching of my philosophy—who knows, therefore, that our whole existence is something which had better not have been, and that to disown and disclaim it is the highest wisdom—he will have no great expectations from anything or any condition in life: he will spend passion upon nothing in the world, nor lament over-much if he fails in any of his undertakings. He will feel the deep truth of what Plato6 says: [Greek: oute ti ton anthropinon haxion on megalaes spondaes]—nothing in human affairs is worth any great anxiety; or, as the Persian poet has it,

    Though from thy grasp all worldly things should flee,
    Grieve not for them, for they are nothing worth:
    And though a world in thy possession be,
    Joy not, for worthless are the things of earth.
    Since to that better world 'tis given to thee
    To pass, speed on, for this is nothing worth.7

    The chief obstacle to our arriving at these salutary views is that hypocrisy of the world to which I have already alluded—an hypocrisy which should be early revealed to the young. Most of the glories of the world are mere outward show, like the scenes on a stage: there is nothing real about them. Ships festooned and hung with pennants, firing of cannon, illuminations, beating of drums and blowing of trumpets, shouting and applauding—these are all the outward sign, the pretence and suggestion,—as it were the hieroglyphic,—of joy: but just there, joy is, as a rule, not to be found; it is the only guest who has declined to be present at the festival. Where this guest may really be found, he comes generally without invitation; he is not formerly announced, but slips in quietly by himself sans facon; often making his appearance under the most unimportant and trivial circumstances, and in the commonest company—anywhere, in short, but where the society is brilliant and distinguished. Joy is like the gold in the Australian mines—found only now and then, as it were, by the caprice of chance, and according to no rule or law; oftenest in very little grains, and very seldom in heaps. All that outward show which I have described, is only an attempt to make people believe that it is really joy which has come to the festival; and to produce this impression upon the spectators is, in fact, the whole object of it. --Arthur Scopenhauer

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    Quote Originally Posted by Seya View Post
    I think humans aren't made to be happy. happiness is an abstract concept for most of them. the more money you have, the more you understand that you'll never reach that state of mind. being poor at least you have a hope. you have a dream to chase.
    there are short moments in our lives when we have that feeling of joy but it doesn't lasts forever. it goes away even for the simple reason that we get used to it.
    This famous brazilian song sums up pretty well:

    "Tristeza não tem fim, felicidade sim. A felicidade é como a pluma que o vento vai levando pelo ar, voa tão leve, mas tem a vida breve, precisa que haja vento sem parar."

    "Sadness has no end, happiness does. The happiness is like a feather that the wind wafts through the air, it flows so light, but its life is brief, it needs a constant wind."



    Quote Originally Posted by Tannhauser View Post
    My children smiling, laughing.

    Also when I capture and hug them.

    and sometimes from time to time saying te quiero papá (they also tell me I hate you when I scold them, little bastards!!!)

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    For me, happiness means achieving a balance in life and also fulfilling my hopes, feeling loved, doing something I love, and going through life naturally instead of feeling like It's a chore every day. I'm definitely not the happiest person currently, but I am happy at times . I feel that I still need to try and achieve or find true happiness.
    =(^.^)=

    Also I don't do classifications currently, sorry.

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    Waiting for JamesBond007's answer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Seya View Post
    maybe then you'll feel like you're missing excitement many people like to throw that away when they reach that point and start everything from zero
    True! thats why I always say, do everything u want to do before u get into any kind of serious comitment, bcs many people who dont and rush into things, when they get to reach stability, they do exactly what u say. They feel like they missed many stuff in their life that they cant do with whichever kind of serious comitment they are in, and either live their lives super bitter or they leave whatever they have and go on and do what they want, leaving behind their jobs, families or kids.
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    Playing on a Game Center, eating a nice Matsuya Gyudon Bowl and walking on the street without any proper direction.

    Simple as that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Insuperable View Post
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    Happiness is being healthy and in the absence of pain and not being bored all these conditions being met.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chaos One View Post
    Playing on a Game Center, eating a nice Matsuya Gyudon Bowl and walking on the street without any proper direction.

    Simple as that.
    A man with simple needs.

    I can relate to the bolded part, mostly when I'm at the beach during night time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chaos One View Post
    Playing on a Game Center, eating a nice Matsuya Gyudon Bowl and walking on the street without any proper direction.

    Simple as that.
    what if one day the world we know it is gonna change? or you're in a place where money have no value cause there is nothing you can buy? would you feel forever unhappy? or you'll set different standards?

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