Who on TA is this?

[War Chef]

Women love it when you "finish" after them anyway that's all bullshit. If she's into you then she's into you, if not then move on.

Thanks but I wasn't really asking for advice just saying ppl don't really value kindness anymore, actually they'll exploit it. Some of my most productive phases in life was when I was just an unapologetic asshole to everyone.

[Dick]

Thanks but I wasn't really asking for advice just saying ppl don't really value kindness anymore, actually they'll exploit it. Some of my most productive phases in life was when I was just an unapologetic asshole to everyone.

Define kindness.

[Ascended]

sometimes i simp just to make up/compensate for my pimp ways...you ever just simp for no reason, like you feel afraid you are too pimping? Im speaking irl

this girl I used to buy her alot of groceries and just give her money often/simped because I felt she was falling for my primal lures, so i had to cut it short and simp since we were distant cousins and i dont like meddling in-laws who are also uncles/aunties. It worked lol, she start seeing me as a big bro

[War Chef]

Define kindness.

I will later.

[Harley]

I'm more like Mr.G deep down.

But nice guys finish last.

idk if nice guys finish last, or childhood programming finishes first.

it has been in my experience that a lot of men that call themselves ”nice guys” are really unpleasant overall.

anyway, i wanted to mention that i admire those men that still stand for what’s right, even when it’s difficult. it’s a heroic trait. i think when people are positive and support one another, we uplift ourselves. people like mr. g are like treasure among the irrelevant. i hope i can be someone that says the right thing during a difficult time. i think i sound like a hardcore asshole due to my blunt nature.

I actually enjoy simping (synonymous with being kind/nice).

Sad world we live in where we have to act like a POS to secure the person we want.

i would recommend for any new couple and people considering marriage take pre-marital counseling before starting any serious relationship. i wish someone suggested that to me before i wasted my time in 12 combined years in two failed marriages.

i enjoy being nice too. it’s very hard to be nice when being pushed to your limit.

[Ascended]

idk if nice guys finish last, or childhood programming finishes first.

it has been in my experience that a lot of men that call themselves ”nice guys” are really unpleasant overall.

anyway, i wanted to mention that i admire those men that still stand for what’s right, even when it’s difficult. it’s a heroic trait. i think when people are positive and support one another, we uplift ourselves. people like mr. g are like treasure among the irrelevant. i hope i can be someone that says the right thing during a difficult time. i think i sound like a hardcore asshole due to my blunt nature.


i would recommend for any new couple and people considering marriage take pre-marital counseling before starting any serious relationship. i wish someone suggested that to me before i wasted my time in 12 combined years in two failed marriages.

i enjoy being nice too. it’s very hard to be nice when being pushed to your limit.

"nice guys" lowkey are manipulative passive aggressive indecisive types...you are right. It's rare they are nice just for niceness's sake...its usually a 'flex' and they expect something in return or plan to

[Harley]

"nice guys" lowkey are manipulative passive aggressive indecisive types...you are right. It's rare they are nice just for niceness's sake...its usually a 'flex' and they expect something in return or plan to

it’s in a man’s nature to lead. my mistake in my experience was taking over the reins when i realized my partners lacked the ability and strength of character needed for a husband figure.

[War Chef]

idk if nice guys finish last, or childhood programming finishes first.

it has been in my experience that a lot of men that call themselves ”nice guys” are really unpleasant overall

The last sentence, very true.
I'm not a nice guy. What i'm saying is there's no point in even trying to cultivate that trait because it won't do you no good. People don't appreciate it anymore because everyone else is doing it. It almost pays to be a POS (though with a little more sophistication so you don't like, get thrown in jail or something).

Especially as a kind/good man it's mistaken as weakness, as cliche as that sounds.

[stellan]

The last sentence, very true.
I'm not a nice guy. What i'm saying is there's no point in even trying to cultivate that trait because it won't do you no good. People don't appreciate it anymore because everyone else is doing it. It almost pays to be a POS (though with a little more sophistication so you don't like, get thrown in jail or something).

Especially as a kind/good man it's mistaken as weakness, as cliche as that sounds.

imo the best is when a guy has an assertive nature and isn't always overly "nice" to everyone, but you can tell he's a really good person inside

[Celestia]

it’s in a man’s nature to lead. my mistake in my experience was taking over the reins when i realized my partners lacked the ability and strength of character needed for a husband figure.

true, they don't have to be an asshole to lead though.