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I feel for you and understand your frustrations, but don't idealize Europe too much either. "Most civilised" countries today are also most degenerate and promote culture of death.I don't agree with Erdoğan. Turkey is geographically at least 97% Asian and only 3% European. Also unlike the West, Turkish people are too conservative and mentally very close to East, even if they deny it many times. Plus, historically Turks are counted as "Eastern civilization". Because our culture and mindset are closer to East than it's to West.
Of course we are influenced by West, I don't deny it. But if we count that how much we are Western inflenced, then it's only 10%-20%.
I'm still witnessing Western-opposite culture in my people. Like killing daughters for so-called "honour" just because of their daughters dated or talked to opposite gender. Also 90% of Turkish men tell that they would never let their sisters/daughters/girlfriends/wives wear mini clothes, otherwise they will kill them. Even my own dad & brothers are like that! I fucking hate the notion called "honour"! The fucking nation so called "honour" MUSN'T be a reason for killing! I'm so sad for my countrywomen who are killed by their men, I hope they are all resting in peace. I hope I won't be one of those women Because my father said "Those men don't kill their women for no reason" to my mom when he was arguing with her! I was shocked and told "Is this my own dad saying this?" inside. This bigotry MUST get extinct! Otherwise we will never be a civilized/developed country!
To become European or European-like:
1) We MUST get rid of our bigotry! At least 70% of Turkish people are very bigot, as I said above. I'm not tryna denigrate my compatriots but these are facts, unfortunately.
2) We must restructure our education system. Education must be more of the curriculum than teaching. Unfortunately, our system is established only on teaching. Because of this, people are mainly educated bigots. They go to school but never evolve into civilized/modern people. Learn-by-rote system ruined Turkey very much. But even Atatürk couldn't make the country (fully) modern, how could we make? Even my own family & relatives are anti-modernizm!
3) People must be directed into art, science & sport more. 70% of Turkey are very anti-art, anti-science & anti-sport. And it's because of too much bigotry in the name of religion. Even when I told my mom how would she react if I wanted to become a singer, she said "In our culture, girls can never be singers. Because female voice is haram"! God, please give me patience! I can't stand this bigotry anymore! Fuck the culture like this!
4) The goverment must get rid of bigot rulers! I hope the current party called AKP will fall over next 3 years. Because the religious tariqahs, sharia-supporters, sheikhs and anti-women settlements are spoilt by the goverment too much! And the channels who are controlled by those religious tariqahs, sharia-supporters, sheikhs and anti-women settlements are must be closed!
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