Ive been betrayed again

[Nelju]

It's a human animal trait to hate weakness.
I also dislike emotionally volatile people and I'm a guy.... I'm supposed to find it endearing in the opposite sex but I don't.
Humans just don't like weakness of any kind.
I think it goes back to caveman days where survival was important and nothing was more repulsive than weakness.

Yeah, I am repulsed by insecure or immature women. I don't have time or patience to babysit a grown woman.

[Incal]

Never trust too much. Not telling you to be a paranoid tho'

[JamesBond007]

Once again, someone I thought I could trust was going behind my back and talking shit/spilling secrets about me. This keeps happening to me no matter how trustworthy or kind the person seems. I think I will end up becoming too paranoid or cynical to form any relationships if this continues. Im desperate now and asking what are the warning signs of someone who can't be trusted? I thought I could tell but it seems I can't.

Neolithic human problems next time try rolling with the cognitive elite. The Cognitive elite is too busy thinking about science , philosophy or technology to bother gossiping.

People are busy focusing on different Europeans and races here but there are three kinds of humans in the modern world :

1.) Neolithic humans

2.) Paleotropical humans

3.) The cognitive elite

[Harley]

i’m reminded of how little people care about your personal information when they’re petty minded and say whatever their butthurt feelings dictate to them.

i’m irritated by the double standard some individuals pretend at, where they expect you to respect their private information, but it’s a free for all with yours. what a tool.

[Trouble]

Update: feel a lot better about this situation

[TheMaestro]

There is one actual advice for you my friend, fuck others, take life more as a joke, free your mind.

[Ylla]

I'm sorry it happened to you and I'm glad you're feeling better about it. People are just awful, I've learned to lower my expectations and to only open up to a select few. It hurts more if you're a nice person and couldn't see yourself doing the same to that person.
Learn to establish boundaries and protect yourself.

[Colonel Frank Grimes]

Its never 'them' always blame yourself. Always. Humans are 'reactionary'.

One thing I learned is to NEVER be vulnerable to anyone, always on Guard...even my son he dont know my insecurities. My fucking seed...I used to do social experiments especially with women and give them fake 'insecurities' to see if they use it against me, and they would eventually. And I'd be like, "hehe dumb bitch". Even with my wife I play this game. My only game tbh.

I only trust Allah

Lol, I've done that. The problem is that you can't correct it later if the relationship becomes serious. You can't say, "Remember when I told you this and that? Well, that was just bullshit to test you."

[Renekton]

Visit a therapist.