What are some signs that you are uglier than you realize?

[Richmondbread]

My face is friendlier than LePriuer. His face is angular and very mean looking.

Okay, so bottom line, yes LePriuer may have "model good looks" but I'm actually cuter, if that makes any sense.

[Richmondbread]

What I mean to say, is that I've noticed that my appearance has had no obvious benefit to me.

Look, you never smile in any of your pictures, and you come across as aloof. Unlike yours, My face is very friendly.

[Richmondbread]

I can't sleep because I'm so upset over this. Everyone told me I am average looking and I can never be attractive.

[Grace O'Malley]

Looks never brought home the bacon. Most people are not stereotypical good looking. Some people are just making excuses for other defects. Just go out and get a job and work hard and you will be too tired to think about whether your are ugly or not.

[Mortimer]

I can't sleep because I'm so upset over this. Everyone told me I am average looking and I can never be attractive.

I told you you are very good looking though but I'm male

[Slavic Italian]

No one is a 10, no one. But I just want to be attractive.

Please don't quote. This is me. The pic is a year old when I was 50. I'm 23lbs lighter now than what I was in the photo.

[gixajo]

RichmondBread gave me a thumbs down in the post in which I told Raedwald that maybe in his case,could be that he suffered the envy of others.

[Adriaticia]

It's a personality issue with him. Women are drawn to laid back men who act like they do not want any women. It's a sign of confidence.

Lol. If women wants u she will ask for ur phone either be sure. If women want to get laid with u she will ask for it if u attract her. No need weird theories. They are just like mans. If man find women attractive and she wants him back no way he will reject her for the "game of hard to get" its stupid

[Adriaticia]

Not necessarily.

Specially Spanish girls they have that. If they wants u they come to u. I been in Barcelona and it was heaven. In my country usually u need go to her and ask for her number or instagram. In spain they come to u just like a man and ask what ever they want too. It happends also in Bulgaria maybe it could happend in more vacation places i dunno.

[BakersfieldChimp]

I can't sleep because I'm so upset over this. Everyone told me I am average looking and I can never be attractive.

I haven't posted in a while, but this needs to be said since you are losing sleep over this.

Looks fade. Personality doesn't have to.

You are not ugly. you are not bad looking. You are handsome. However, two things are getting in the way. One is your weight. People see a fat person and they really don't look at the face. When you get to the point where you can tell someone is overweight from looking at a headshot alone, 'attractive' isn't going to be the defining characteristic. The second is your age. We all age and we all are getting older. When people are past their 'peak' it is all down hill when it comes to looks. Not really that fast, but it is just life. You know this since you are posting older pictures yourself when you were younger.

That isn't the big issue. The big issue is how much importance you are placing on other people's opinions of your looks. There is an old saying about 'egotists' ('narcissists' has clinical connotations). "Instead of thinking less about themselves, they need to think about themselveds less". That is clearly where your trouble lies. How many threads have you started about your looks? It isn't emotionally healthy to be concerned over such things. It gives a person an off-putting air about you and that makes for an overall unattactive package.

Work on the things you can like your personailty and your weight. Accept the things you can't, your looks and your age. And people will be more attracted to you for your entire being instead of dismissing you are a bore who only wants people to tell you that you are still pretty.