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A clone of sorts of an ABF thread discussing how Americans these days tend to move out of their family home after 18, the poster at ABF was curious why this was and how it compares to other parts of the world. I myself am curious to hear from ya'll on the subject of having generations of family living in the same home and what is your cultural motivation behind your answer.
This was my answer at ABF:
For centuries you'd find not just two or three generations of a lineage living together but also certain trusted cousins of collateral relation. Now this is not to say that we just freeloaded off of each other, while living together we'd cooperate to get things done around the property whether it be tilling, planting, maintenance, we'd also have our own jobs to boot along with the family construction crew unless call for labor's on a lull.
Things were more simple in TN when we had a family farm (I never got to see because the tragedy happened before my birth), but after the fire the tragedy struck deep so we've been landless for a while with the exception of grandfather's property in Ohio (he abandoned pursuing home in TN, my father also abandoned TN in 2001). When I was still in TN I spent just as much of my time with cousins or with families that knew my family as I did at the rental.
Given the ties of kin I find a conflict with returning to TN our home and where our generations are buried because my grandparents and parents have abandoned TN and are all up here so if I return I'd only be around cousins and such.
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