I feel really bad

**Chris596** · 01-07-2021, 09:16 AM

I don’t know how to get started, but I feel like I’ve really ruined my life. I am a very naive and stupid person. Last year I met some bad people who led me to believe that they are my friends, meanwhile they just took advantage of my kindness and stupidity. I did a lot of stupid things that I already regret. I shake and tremble as I am currently writing this. I am talking about really evil and manipulative people... most of them completely cut the connection with me. But there's this other guy, the most evil out of them, turned one of my best friends against me and doesn't leave me alone, he keeps threatening me and constantly calls me from unknown numbers. He claims that I owe him money and I stole from him which is not true at all. Meanwhile I helped him a lot before, even after Christmas he behaved normally but I think he's crazy or mentally ill. They say he also has many connections with criminals and I know of one them who was already in prison for murder. The worst part is that he knows where I live. I literally hate myself I'm so stupid and naive I want to disappear forever and I'm afraid that I can't do anything now because my life will be ruined forever.

I'm sorry but I can't ask anyone for help anymore and I'm very nervous and sad and I don't know what to do. I thought it would be over now and this year everything would change but things just got so much worse and I feel like my life is in danger

I feel like quarantine has driven me crazy and my life is worthless and I'm unsuccessful because I can't even finish what I started and my time is worthless. And I'm thinking about deleting this account because nobody needs me...

**reboun** · 01-07-2021, 09:22 AM

If I were you, I would try to talk to him why he is doing such thing but if he doesn’t respond positively I would cut my relation with him and if he goes on threatening, I would seek help from the local police.

Alexandro · 01-07-2021, 09:56 AM

I would report this behavior to the local authorities if he keeps persisting, that is harassment. Aside from that just cut off your connection with him, you do not need these sorts of people in your life, "he who walks with the wise grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm."

**Vojnik** · 01-07-2021, 09:58 AM

Tough situation.

Tell your family what going going on in your life. Be open.

And don’t be so hard on yourself. We all make mistakes in life. The mistakes help us grow and learn.

I wish I could do more to help. Let me know in private message if you need anything.

**Chris596** · 01-07-2021, 11:07 AM

Originally Posted by aruncaz

If I were you, I would try to talk to him why he is doing such thing but if he doesn’t respond positively I would cut my relation with him and if he goes on threatening, I would seek help from the local police.

Thanks, I'm afraid he won't leave me alone but I think I'm going to contact the police before it's too late. Unfortunately I've heard that the police doesn't really care about such things, ,,they come when there's already blood'' .

Originally Posted by IberianAlex

I would report this behavior to the local authorities if he keeps persisting, that is harassment. Aside from that just cut off your connection with him, you do not need these sorts of people in your life, "he who walks with the wise grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm."

I hope he will leave me. I don't owe him anything at all. Thanks

Originally Posted by Vojnik

Tough situation.

Tell your family what going going on in your life. Be open.

And don’t be so hard on yourself. We all make mistakes in life. The mistakes help us grow and learn.

I wish I could do more to help. Let me know in private message if you need anything.

I guess you're right

But I'm still sad and confused because of these stupid choices, I just hope I won't get into any bigger trouble. I wouldn't tell my parents yet, I’m waiting a little longer and if I really have to, I’ll talk to the police first. Thank you

**Mr.G** · 01-07-2021, 11:19 AM

You know you can always PM me.

Thinking about you, Chris.

**Rafael Passoni** · 01-07-2021, 11:54 AM

First tell your family. It's the most important step and wait. Don't delete your account, we like you.

**Benyzero** · 01-07-2021, 12:02 PM

Sounds like this guy is a leech. They grow on your head if you don't cut them off.. I can't tell you what to do, or what are the exact circumstances, but if you can't get rid of him, may it would be wise to contact the police just for your own safety.