If I got plastic surgery what would I need to fix?

[Richmondbread]

You keep asking the same question and you keep getting the same answer. Usually people when asking such question they do not expect an honest answer but I'll give it to you one anyway.
You don't need any plastic surgery, man's face is not important at all for most women. What matters is the weigh, height and attitude. You need to drop weight. If anyone ever tell you that you don't need that, he/she is just lying to you.
Other than that, you need to check your mental health. I mean seriously, go see a specialist. Whatever is wrong with you it can be at least improved. Maybe you can try a group therapy, you may also meet someone there with similar issues.
Honestly I doubt you'll gonna listen any of this people's advices anyway.
I once gave a deaf guy an advice who was constantly complaining for not fining love. I told him maybe he should find a girl with a similar problem, it would be easier for them to communicate. He told me he'd never date a handicap girl. He only wants "normal" women.

Okay, so by your logic women should find this guy super attractive. He's the tallest man in the world, and super thin!

[Harley]

Okay, so by your logic women should find this guy super attractive. He's the tallest man in the world, and super thin!

By her logic, you should date someone more suitable for you. You are realistically probably not going to find a young woman of childbearing age to bear your children. You will probably want to look for an older woman that is looking for a fun loving companion.

Does that mean we don’t want you to find a coffee shop loving, child bearing woman? No, it doesn’t. It doesn’t mean you need plastic surgery either.

Drop the weight. The weight you were in 2010 is a good start. I bet you will have a lot more women trying to get to know you when you don’t have the extra weight hiding your features.

[frankhammer]

Lose weight and find a decent barber or hair stylist. Plastic surgery isn't the answer.

[Rafael Passoni]

I think you don't need this, you are handsome. Also Plastic surgery has poor results in man. I think if you would go to the gym you spend your money better.

[CordedWhelp]

Bruh, I wasn’t kidding about the fiber.

[Longbowman]

Can you have a personality transplant?

[Richmondbread]

By her logic, you should date someone more suitable for you. You are realistically probably not going to find a young woman of childbearing age to bear your children. You will probably want to look for an older woman that is looking for a fun loving companion.

Does that mean we don’t want you to find a coffee shop loving, child bearing woman? No, it doesn’t. It doesn’t mean you need plastic surgery either.

Drop the weight. The weight you were in 2010 is a good start. I bet you will have a lot more women trying to get to know you when you don’t have the extra weight hiding your features.

The old women don't want me either. None of them do. I want children.

[Celestia]

The old women don't want me either. None of them do. I want children.

Tbh Richie you reek of immaturity and instability and that's a huge turn off to women no matter how good looking you are.
I don't think I can stress enough that this is the problem and not your physical appearance.

[Richmondbread]

Tbh Richie you reek of immaturity and instability and that's a huge turn off to women no matter how good looking you are.
I don't think I can stress enough that this is the problem and not your physical appearance.

I'm just being honest. I am on Christian mingle and I email women between 20 and 70 years old. None of them respond. Not one. None of them answer my messages. The older ones want older men than me anyway. I don't see why in my early 40s I would have to date grandmothers.

[Celestia]

I'm just being honest. I am on Christian mingle and I email women between 20 and 70 years old. None of them respond. Not one. None of them answer my messages. The older ones want older men than me anyway. I don't see why in my early 40s I would have to date grandmothers.

Well tbh dating apps in general are pointless. I never went on one serious date from those. I think people normally use them out of boredom and for validation purposes (females at least)
And no I don't think you have to settle for someone 70.. but you need to have realistic expectations. I think for you, you need to find someone who will love you unconditionally and that's going to be someone who understands you. Maybe look into a support group or something. You have some serious insecurity issues that I think you should tackle first, and there's no shame in that.