It's sad but looks seem to always beat personality

[Richmondbread]

If someone is ugly with a terrible personality, everyone will find them repulsive , or just tell them to "fix" their personality and they can improve their lot. If someone is good looking with a crappy personality, people overlook it. Looks seem to coat everything. This is just how it is. I'm sorry but I learned the truth. I always was Mister Nice. Being an ugly man, I always knew my fate from an early age.

[Linebacker]

I think there was a saying - Looks is how you get them, personality is how you keep them.

[Comealongwithme]

I can personally vouch for the fact that, my looks have allowed me many privileges.

[Radimir]

It's true. Looks do matter, my appearance have been a major benefit to me, even as a small child. It helped me.

[Richmondbread]

It's true. Looks do matter, my appearances have been a major benefit to me, even as a small child. It helped me.

I was actually an adorable child. I guess I peaked early, or I just forgot to maintain.

[Longbowman]

What the fuck? Your personality is the entire problem. Your looks are fine. You have 0 self awareness. You have been told this 1,000 times by 100 members.

It's true that especially for casual dating looks can compensate for shitty personalities but you need to be at least 5 points higher than the person you're dating for that to be true, and 5 points below you is 0/10.

[Richmondbread]

What the fuck? Your personality is the entire problem. Your looks are fine. You have 0 self awareness. You have been told this 1,000 times by 100 members.

It's true that especially for casual dating looks can compensate for shitty personalities but you need to be at least 5 points higher than the person you're dating for that to be true, and 5 points below you is 0/10.

You say my looks are fine, and then describe me as a 5. You do realize that average is the new ugly, right? Women are extremely shallow. Why date me when they can date a 6'4 25 year old football player? They even date Negroes over me.

[Longbowman]

You say my looks are fine, and then describe me as a 5. You do realize that average is the new ugly, right? Women are extremely shallow. Why date me when they can date a 6'4 25 year old football player?

You're not going to turn any heads, but you're not going to repulse anyone. If you had a good job, a winning personality and a bright future, some 5/10 woman would have snapped you up by now.

There are very few 25 year old 6"4 football players, most women don't date them. I'm not a 6"4 football player.

They even date Negroes over me.

A) As per our recent 'conversations,' this is an example of you being [very] racist
B) Yes, this is because you are a non-entity. You have no real virtues and a lot of huge deficits. Your looks are not a huge deficit, however. The women are wise not to date you, as you have nothing to offer.

[JamesBond007]

If someone is ugly with a terrible personality, everyone will find them repulsive , or just tell them to "fix" their personality and they can improve their lot. If someone is good looking with a crappy personality, people overlook it. Looks seem to coat everything. This is just how it is. I'm sorry but I learned the truth. I always was Mister Nice. Being an ugly man, I always knew my fate from an early age.

Sorry, how people view you can only affect you mediately and indirectly while what a man is in and of himself ---for instance, a man's health, character and intelligence are far more important. Imagine you were stuck on a desert island with cancer and a 70 IQ compared to if you had perfect health and high enough intelligence to entertain yourself with profound thoughts and survive on the island etc.. your character and intelligence are responsible for how perceive everything.

[Grand Admiral Thrawn]

Well it can and it can't I and most people that I know in real life and online consider me to look repulsive. I was bullied for two things, one my personality that is literally autistic because I have Autism or rather Aspergers Syndrome. Eg: Being a smart-ass, overly-talkative and not knowing when to shut the fuck up, the sound of my voice which was winey, me being quite critical of religion especially Islam and many Muslims were in the school, I was never islamophobic I just criticized religion and I learnt the hard way that it's impossible to criticize religion, especially Islam without getting shit. Also despite autistic people being stereotyped as not being social at all, I was actually quite social and attempted to be social but I sucked at it and thus it's made be not want to socialize with people apart from those I know or love due to fear or paranoia of people getting fed up with me. The other think I got bullied for was my looks, I was short, with a long "Jewish" or just Assyroid nose with a hook, bushy eyebrows that are black, I have dark ginger (auburn) hair that's surprisingly not that curly. Skin tone is quite light but not as light as the average Northern European, I have no chin or should I say my chin is nearly non-existent - call it LeafyIsHere chin syndrome if you will and I was considerably slightly over-weight, recently I lost weight.

Basically I was bullied for all of these things but the strongest one was my looks, I would walk into a classroom full of people and they'd say "Shalom". Just for looking at me this literally happened to me once. And that's because this one kid who knew I was half Jew showed a picture of me to someone and then it spread round the whole class, this was like Year 10 and most people said "He looks like a holocaust survivor". Eitherway I remember most women laughing at the possibility of being with me in high school, I got unbelievably lucky and fell in love with one girl who didn't and somehow didn't find anything about me repulsive. I remember being really suicidal in High School..got I hated it.