It's sad but looks seem to always beat personality

[Tauromachos]

And then also, I would say that true love isn't something that you have to pursue, but more something that develops over time. I didn't "get" my girlfriend through intentionally searching for one or being a try hard, we just hung around in the same circles and had similar interests/goals in life, and so naturally our paths crossed, you know?

Absolutely true if you meet someone who is truly made for you the whole chimp talking about ugly or handsome,personality,money
resources and power and all this bullshit is meaningless it just works out by itself.

And its each humans birthright to find a partner and have children no one can take it from you if you don't listen to them

[slaog]

You have low self esteem. Forget about women for the time being and concentrate on changing yourself.


Don't underestimate the power of the mind. Your outside world is a reflection of your inner world. The good news is it can be changed. Just work on what you're putting into your mind. Negative thoughts will get negative results. Positive thoughts will get positive results.

[Hialt]

A person NATURALLY judges things at first appearance, and when there is not a lot of information, OR EXPERIENCE, "looks" are considered signals to guide the observer forward.
A young person might well judge by looks, because they have little earthly experience, according to their age. It is immature of them to consider ONLY the physical surface, but they have very limited human life experience to help them judge a situation wisely.

[Richmondbread]

Okay