This Is why some people go Into same sex relationships.

**Hasien** · 04-09-2021, 03:17 AM

One friend of mine who's 30 married with kids . Once told me he was tired of how his wife never compliment him or appreciate every effort he has done to the household or for his family or for her he said It would be nice If he gets In return of being charmed the way he does to his wife.

Same with women they never value her and only saw her as kitchen material and sex and never understood what she really desires...

What makes the difference between opposite & same sex relationships? You are able to understand each other more and needs and values that the opposite gender doesn't sometimes realize.

**Hasien** · 04-09-2021, 03:21 AM

Another common trend why women go lesbian mode, domestic violence In the household and treated poorly and goes to severe emotional depression.

**Ruggery** · 04-09-2021, 03:59 AM

Your friend is probably already gay from before his marriage was just hiding it.

**Ruggery** · 04-09-2021, 04:02 AM

Originally Posted by Hasien

Another common trend why women go lesbian mode, domestic violence In the household and treated poorly and goes to severe emotional depression.

When women suffer violence or abuse, many times they develop a trauma that prevents them from establishing relationships with men out of fear due to those traumas, I am not saying that it does not happen but I believe that women are rarely lesbians because of that.

**Celestia** · 04-09-2021, 04:08 AM

I would think most men would just cheat with another woman if they aren’t getting satisfied vs switching sides.

You have a point about women.. I have seen a lot of women decide to be curious and explore with another woman because they were tired of “douchebag men” they usually end up dating men again eventually.

**Westbrook** · 04-09-2021, 04:10 AM

What's one thing got to do with the other?

**Ruggery** · 04-09-2021, 04:15 AM

Originally Posted by Celestia

I would think most men would just cheat with another woman if they aren’t getting satisfied vs switching sides.

You have a point about women.. I have seen a lot of women decide to be curious and explore with another woman because they were tired of “douchebag men” they usually end up dating men again eventually.

Exactly with women it usually happens a lot out of curiosity but with men not, if they do that it is likely that they are really attracted to the same sex.

**Westbrook** · 04-09-2021, 04:18 AM

After reading the post a couple times I don't think he's saying his friend actually went gay, he's just making some kind of weird connection between people not feeling appreciated and choosing to go gay as a result

Originally Posted by Ruggery

Your friend is probably already gay from before his marriage was just hiding it.

**Ruggery** · 04-09-2021, 04:22 AM

Originally Posted by Westbrook

After reading the post a couple times I don't think he's saying his friend actually went gay, he's just making some kind of weird connection between people not feeling appreciated and choosing to go gay as a result

Exactly, this thread is like the Richmond thread that not having male friendships can make you gay.

**Hasien** · 04-09-2021, 04:31 AM

Originally Posted by Westbrook

After reading the post a couple times I don't think he's saying his friend actually went gay, he's just making some kind of weird connection between people not feeling appreciated and choosing to go gay as a result

Hes straight. He's been a long term friend he's more like a cousin to me obviously he knows my sexuality and feels very comfortable discussing topics that he would never discussed with women or other men.

He likes to let it "go"