I have no success

[Laly]

1. Have you talked with your husband? Have you told him that you lack attention?
2. I think you have a difficulty socializing and suffer from low self esteem which is at least partially the reason why you don't want to have a job etc.
3. You look attractive. You shouldn't have worries about your look.
4. You do know that you can't go to a forum and seek in a virtual world what you seek in your family life. Start fixing your problems.

Dear Insuperable, I guess you're right about for ex. that I have some difficulty socializing and indeed, I should have a real discussion with my husband about all that.

[Laly]

Laly I remember I ended a hostile discussion by saying blessing to your family and by that ending the interactions with you totally. Then you continued with jabs against me.
I take this thread as another attempt for 3eir and stop the discussions to you and hope you stop your fitna.

peace

Ahahah, you like indeed to distort reality! Do you want me to post that so-called "peaceful" message, with which you put an end to a discussion, just after I had shown you evidence that you were lying, as you denied your insults against me?

[NSXD60]

Don't pay attention to your few detractors on this forum when most here find you pleasantly agreable, as your family must. Nothing is 100% in life.

[Teutone]

Ahahah, you like indeed to distort reality! Do you want me to post that so-called "peaceful" message, with which you put an end to a discussion, just after I had shown you evidence that you were lying, as you denied your insults against me?

lak I ended a hostile discussion as I said then you keep doing fitna just like right now.

pointless with you

[Laly]

lak I ended a hostile discussion as I said then you keep doing fitna just like right now.

pointless with you

In brief, it was not meant at all to calm down the situation, addressing the sensitive points, but to “sneak off”.

And as you are pretending things concerning that last message, I guess I have your agreement for posting it:



^So peaceful and sympathetic, meant to calm things down, really... Not condescending at all...

[Peterski]

You need to do some brainstorming & planning, to define what do you want your success to be about.

And you will have to sacrifice a lot of potential, in order to choose and focus on just one thing (or just few things). You need to make hard choices: which potential to pursue & which potential to sacrifice and leave behind locked doors.

Remember: it's potential, don't try to release ALL of it at once, because you might get disappointed:

[Celestia]

Laly,
Firstly, I find your intellect and articulation admirable and I enjoy reading your posts.
Anytime someone posts an opinion (especially a controversial one) there will be others with differing perspectives. I would say most users here are mature, they're just passionate regarding their beliefs and are only naturally debating with you.

I'm sure most do not have an actual problem with you.

[Peterski]

Here is my idea:

If you have no idea what to do to suceed, just... become a coach - you will teach others how to succeed.

Failed in real world? Become a teacher; failed in online success? Become a coach of online success:

[Duffmannn]

I want to know why it seems people here don’t like me overall.

It seems I arouse mostly indifference, disgust and hostility. Many members have greatly lacked courtesy towards me, considering me with the highest disdain, some have greatly insulted me and one member in particular used to be kind and considerate towards me, but then, several months ago, did a U-turn and displayed coldness regarding me. I'm sure that person was playing with me.

It needed to be said, although I know you don't care about my affliction.

The forums in general, also this one, are places full of toxic people that can´t have such behaviour in real life and use this as a escape.

[gixajo]

......?

Creative work could help you feel useful and value your ability/cpacity.

You also don't have to write the best novel of the century to begin with, but you can start, for example, by writing short stories for your daughter, even illustrating them, or short stories for a more adult audience etc ...

Or any other creative work of your interest or your taste, in which you think you can do well. I think you have the necessary capacity at least to propose it to yourself.