Will Mortimer go on date sometime? Maybe, Maybe not

**Mortimer** · 07-09-2021, 05:06 AM

I joined a singles and friends facebook group. I met a girl, she is not far away from me. 20 minutes with the train. We chat. She hesitates to meet me in person, and she told me I will have a hard time finding friends because I overwhelm people with too much informations and that Im kinda annoying, she said she just wants to be honest because im a nice guy, and she doesnt want to be fake. I still write her, but she corrected me how i should talk, for example she said i should wait if someone asks me for pictures and not post many pictures, or if i say hello then i wait until the other says hello back and then we talk from there... not that i write essays without being asked and reveal too much information. I appreciate that she told me that, and didnt blocked me. I still write her, she said it would be too early to meet in person, but she cant tell if we will meet. So it is not absolute no but I have to wait I guess. To chat more and then see.

**Celestia** · 07-09-2021, 05:11 AM

Well it’s cool she’s being honest and upfront with you. Good luck Morty

**Mortimer** · 07-09-2021, 06:06 AM

Originally Posted by Celestia

Well it’s cool she’s being honest and upfront with you. Good luck Morty

Me and Meade are working on a song for you. I have written the lyrics and he will do the instrumental.

**Mixdguy17** · 07-09-2021, 06:41 AM

Sounds like a person we all need as a friend. Happy for u Mort.

El_Jibaro · 07-09-2021, 09:53 AM

I believe in you, bro

**jfgh676** · 07-09-2021, 10:12 AM

Originally Posted by Mortimer

she corrected me how i should talk, for example she said i should wait if someone asks me for pictures and not post many pictures, or if i say hello then i wait until the other says hello back and then we talk from there... not that i write essays without being asked and reveal too much information..

No but seriously,she's right. Be more laid-back when you talk to girls or else they wont take you as a serious person

**~~SneedsFeedNSeed~~** · 07-10-2021, 03:07 AM

If it doesn't work out, if she would be friends with you, don't reject it. Because you might meet someone through her later. You need social circles so that you can reach more women to ask.
Just be gentle, if she doesn't want to be friends either, then don't pursue, you'll find someone else. It should always be casual, because you can never force somebody to want something.