Does seize matter?

[Manifest]

Ideally the penis should be of average length or slightly longer and quite thick

[BakersfieldChimp]

Before settling down, I was with women who find it important and those who do not. It seems to be far more evenly mixed than anyone wants to admit.

"Lust" is a good ice-breaker for "love". If "packing heat" is the biggest attribute a guy has to offer, the "love" part may be broken out of the gate.





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[Atlantic Reptilian]

You do have a point, but...
The truth of the matter is, men who don't try and have these conversations probably aren't any better and give up the ability to gain insight from others.

Or they don't really care because they shouldn't anyways.
What's the insight of talking about other guys' private parts?
Like, when this topic strikes a family member, it's usually because of how envious others are of him. He walks proudly through the locker room, into the swimming pool, as if it was nothing...
Parents are proud...

[Hexachordia]

I tell you a little secret, women hate moralizers more than rapists, I hate rapists because they disgrace mankind, but women hate moralizers the most.

[Sylvanas]

I'm going to tell you all straight up everything you need to know in hopes that some nice ladies won't have to deal with this shit.

If you want to be good, all you have to do is:

1. Don't watch porn, just trust me, it ruins men sexually. Porn users can't be good, even if they would actually try. They just have it all wrong, on a wired-in level. Literally hopelessly lost in most cases. Even if they got the concept of how to properly do it, they can't enjoy it unless they make themselves do it that way and rewire their brains, which they won't do, because of the way the porn has wired their brains. The low self esteem comes across no matter what, and as we all know confidence is important. And if the porn user is actually confident with what he's doing, that's actually even worse.
2. PAY ATTENTION to her, like she's actually in there, and not a porn star. If she acts anything like a porn star does, she's faking. Develop the ability to observe how she is feeling. It's a skill but it's not THAT hard. That is how you develop your technique, and yes you have to actually have technique. As a general rule, if she seems to like something you just did, do the same EXACT thing, the same EXACT way you just did it, not harder, not deeper, not faster for crying out loud. Another terrible habit from porn. Don't underestimate how fine tuned the vagina is, the slightest change in movement will be noticed, so just like with any communication, be very specific. Avoid painting in broad strokes, it's just really bad technique, even though it looks really good apparently in porn videos. Seriously you guys have no idea what it feels like to be a meat puppet, but not just a meat puppet, a meat puppet who has to pretend to like being a meat puppet to not be considered a defective meat puppet.
3. Don't watch porn. It also makes you moan like a girl btw.

And that's just mechanically speaking.
The #1 thing to know, other than don't watch porn, is:
It is all in her head (how she sees you, how she thinks you see her, how she thinks you see other women compared to her, how much she feels that you care about her, how strong vs. fickle you seem, etc. it'll be different for every woman). That means if you want to be good, you have to actually somewhat know what it is in her head. That's the real reason why female orgasms during sex are so rare. Man gave up on trying to understand woman long ago, not realizing its the only way to get most women to actually like having sex with them rather than feeling like they are just being poked and prodded at by a sweaty stinky spoiled selfish pervert. Just being honest.

And if a woman ever says you're too small (unless you have literal micropenis), she's done you a favor. She's told you that you need to run, because she's most likely a habitual porn user herself and is thus used to seeing giant ones, uses giant dildos on a regular basis, and is probably a hypersexualized whore. To a healthy woman, a big one is painful especially because no matter how much you think, you are not great at being gentle. And even if you have micropenis, your only real problem is changing her perception of it.

Lastly, throw away any confidence you have in your technique so you can actually begin to improve, because she was probably faking. If you really think you are one of the extreme few who has actually made a woman have an orgasm with your penis, then you better have a good reason to believe that based on all of the above information. If you aren't 100% sure that what happened was an orgasm, then it 100% was not an orgasm.

I feel like this can really actually help improve society, not even joking lol. Not that a real man never used a woman as a meat puppet, but in general, having the power to actually give a woman pleasure instead of being a porn addicted disappointment who thinks he has a harem, would probably help improve manliness, and the respect women have for their partners, which is what the world needs.

I can't even read all this nonsense.


Btw., yes seize matter.

[Guti]

I don't care about penis sizes of other dudes at all, because I don't have to feel them in my butt. But it seems somehow that gays have a bigger penis size than straight males.


All the women I had sex with were very satisfied with my dickus. But I think I am blessed with an 'African penis', since it is rather 'brownish' and above average in length/size.

[White Swan]

Or they don't really care because they shouldn't anyways.
What's the insight of talking about other guys' private parts?
Like, when this topic strikes a family member, it's usually because of how envious others are of him. He walks proudly through the locker room, into the swimming pool, as if it was nothing...
Parents are proud...

Lol, like I said, you do have a point.
But I was assuming the conversation would tend to naturally go in the direction that I had taken it with my reply to OP.

Side note, now you have opened the grower vs shower can of worms, I mean I'm assuming you didn't mean that men walk through the locker room with boners, but I suppose I wouldn't know lol

[Celestia]

I think sex is more psychological than anything, so I’m gonna say no

[White Swan]

I can't even read all this nonsense.


Btw., yes seize matter.

Well then, it seems you have been blessed with very simple taste.

[White Swan]

I think sex is more psychological than anything, so I’m gonna say no

I second this