Originally Posted by
Zhulta
Do you even listen to yourself? I am sorry but what garbage is this? I do not know you well, but alone from juding this thread you seem to have a very difficult relation to woman, you almost seem to have a disdain towards them? You seem insecure and self hating and in the next minute you seem like some kind of narcissist who pitys woman because they cant have you. I seen some of your music videos, you are talented. In some posts you are concerned about your apperance, you think too much and compare yourself, that is a big mistake. You are not ugly, maybe loosing a bit weight and getting in shape would help, but even without, far from being ugly. You are not deformed or hideous looking, so why would you not get a woman because of that? However your personality, your attitude, like i said i do not know you fully, but i judge on what i saw on this thread, so your attitude seems awful. Especially towards woman? It seems you loathe them, it seems as if you think they are in pity for not wanting you and are nothing special anyways, yet like everyone else you just wish you have a person that loves you and cares about you, you are keeping yourself away from this, its just a way you seem to cope with.
Nothing is hindering you from getting woman externally, but your inside? I am not saying you are a bad person, i cannot judge you, and i do not know you, but some aspects of it are lacking, sometimes it seems obsessive. You should work on this. Many People around here just troll, some might be mean and others probably are just growing tired of these threads and it slips out of them. I do not know if you ever got constructive criticism from people on here, but you should seek help. You are insecure and narcissistic at the same time, which is a challenging problem, not only for yourself but also for the people around you and makes social interactions with people difficult, especially if you expect these people from being together with you. There is nothing wrong with seeking help, infact it would be good to work on yourself with someone who is experienced with such things, not people on here, you would do yourself a favour, maybe you would discover and realize why you face such problems and fix them, instead of blaming everything else.
Pls do not take this as an personal attack, its just some advice and dont believe people who say you are ugly, they just know its a weak spot of yours and use it against you, why not try working on yourself and really show them they were wrong instead of trying to cope and confront them with narcissistic behaviour?
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