The great love of your/ones life?

[Celestia]

While family may have been the founding unit society was built upon, that is not so much the case today. With government checks replacing men, divorce running rampant, having multiple children from multiple partners, and outsourcing children to day care, modernday families arerapidly becoming temporary breeding arrangements rather than stable, long-term, loving relationships.

Most men and women are not marriage material with about 0.5% of women being marriage material. So I just fuck and chuck women.

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I agree with you jamesbond. Todays society is lacking in morals and it shows in marital issues. Trying to seek out someone with the same views and compatibility is more of a headache than anything. A bit of a pessimistic outlook but it is what it is.

[Aldaris]

Same here Mortimer, I have the same feelings if I watch Turkish series. But I never know whether I should cry about dont living out an unrealistic love story or not beeing blond, having light skin and blue eyes like the actor. Don’t give up, jeder Topf hat einen Deckel.

Women don't care about 'blond hair and blue eyes' at all. They care about attitude and how you can handle stuff.

[Grapeleafs]

You need to understand that Only GOD will and can Ever Love you Truly and Fully.

[NSXD60]

Live twice, Svetozar,
Once for the thread,
And twice as the star
Of who you'll wed.

[Incal]

Being honest, I never felt that somehow my life would be complete if I find "the love of my life" (not really sure if that exists), not even when I was a kid.

[Colonel Frank Grimes]

The love of my life needs to be able to head kick or she can't be the love of my life.

[Erronkari]

The love you see in movies doesn’t exist. It’s unrealistic and sets high expectations.

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[gixajo]

The love you see in movies doesn’t exist. It’s unrealistic and sets high expectations.

I would say that it does exist, but only as an altered state of reality.

I would also say that even knowing that it is possibly nothing more than an illusion, something irreal, sometimes we should force ourselves to believe in it, because it makes us feel like we are in a bubble above everything and everyone, protected from everything dirty and ugly that exists in the world.

[Celestia]

I would say that it does exist, but only as an altered state of reality.

I would also say that even knowing that it is possibly nothing more than an illusion, something irreal, sometimes we should force ourselves to believe in it, because it makes us feel like we are in a bubble above everything and everyone, protected from everything dirty and ugly that exists in the world.

Sure, I can agree with that. But the over-romanticized look on “love” by Hollywood has created an ideal fantasy that isn’t attainable.
Often times love is ugly and hard work. I believe it’s a choice more so than a feeling. Love is choosing to be with someone despite their flaws and shortcomings and choosing to remain faithful and committed even when things are ugly. Not this “soulmate” bs that is embedded in our minds.

I think a lot of times relationships fail because people expect the honeymoon phase to be a constant reality.

[Victor]

Don't confuse exaggerated passion and lust with love. Passion is ok for few months, then it becomes routine, if you can't accept another person as it is, and this person can't accept you, if you don't function together, then it's not love. I rethought all my failed "big loves" and understood that it's a passionate exaggeration formed by my own ego and hedonistic tendencies.