If I got really skinny would females give me a chance?

[Richmondbread]

On dating sites I only got a few interested. Some users blocked me from contacting them even after making innocuous comments like " i like horses , how about you?" And "cool vibe". What hurts more is these are rather plain, average looking females , mostly in their 30s and 40s. If they were hot young thangs, way out of my league, it would actually feel less bad !


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It must be my weight. I am chubby and slightly obese. My baseline features are above average, imo. Women hate fat men, even fat women won't give me a chance. If I got really underweight like Raewald, would I get better response ? I will have to go on diet pills because my diet and exercise is not working!

[Jana]

Yes, but except losing weight you need to

1)get a stable job
2)get your own place
3)own a car
4)grow up mentally

These things matter more than getting fit, although that is a must too.

[gixajo]

Yes, but except losing weight you need to

1)get a stable job
2)get your own place
3)own a car
4)grow up mentally

These things matter more than getting fit, although that is a must too.

Number 4 should be number 1.

Own a car??? Why?

Don´t listen to her Richmond, better own a horse (preferably white).

[Jana]

Number 4 should be number 1.

Own a car??? Why?

Don´t listen to her Richmond, better own a horse (preferably white).

In the US you are a cripple without a car, or even worse without a driving licence (which he maybe doesn't have).
Most of women will see it as a huge red flag.

It's not Europe with our public transportation system. He lives in a suburb like most Americans from what I saw, you can't do anything without a car there

Horse would be a huge plus though

[Richmondbread]

I do own a car , at least

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[Jana]

I do own a car , at least

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You mean your father owns a car. Can you drive?

[Hektor12]

They will NOT give you a chance. You have to earn it. But its better to become somebody that females would ask you for a chance. Its more fun.

[Jana]

I honestly think over 95% of adult women in US would think adult man without a car (or who can't drive) is def. ill and something is wrong with him, unless he lives in inner borough of NYC or something like that. Yes, I think most women would disqualify a adult man without driving skills or a car simply because it is not normal in car-dependent US society and it shows something is not right.

[Sylvanas]

I don't think you need diet pills, ask nutritionist for help, you need good meal plan. And more cardio. And drink only water etc...

[vader]

I honestly think over 95% of adult women in US would think adult man without a car (or who can't drive) is def. ill and something is wrong with him, unless he lives in inner borough of NYC or something like that. Yes, I think most women would disqualify a adult man without driving skills or a car simply because it is not normal in car-dependent US society and it shows something is not right.

ye, im not very old but I just got my license and about to get a car. And now it will be 99% easier to get a girlfriend just by this alone. I'm a good looking guy and have had many girls interested in me but when they realize I'm not driving anywhere and am restricted to my apartment they obviously aren't into it anymore. Unless you're from the city like NYC with a lot of transportation available it's practically impossible. I know of one friend who relies on his gf to drive him and he's probably only still in that in that rship bc he is 6 ft 4 lol.