Were my parents ugly or attractive?

**Gamaliel** · 06-29-2022, 12:25 AM

POINT IS PLEASE LEAVE THIS FORUM FOR SOME TIME AND DO SOMETHING ABOUT YOUR MEANINGLESS PURSUIT OF ASSURANCE AND VINDICATION FROM THOSE WHO CAN NEVER PROVIDE IT FOR YOU

**Richmondbread** · 06-29-2022, 12:27 AM

Originally Posted by Gamaliel

POINT IS PLEASE LEAVE THIS FORUM FOR SOME TIME AND DO SOMETHING ABOUT YOUR MEANINGLESS PURSUIT OF ASSURANCE AND VINDICATION FROM THOSE WHO CAN NEVER PROVIDE IT FOR YOU

I'm going to the gym soon.

**Gamaliel** · 06-29-2022, 12:30 AM

Originally Posted by Richmondbread

I'm going to the gym soon.

If there is the absence of an insecurity, then there is certainty and no need to address or ask others about something that is painfully obvious... I am not opening threads asking about the blackness of my hair or the hairiness of my legs, for example.

So I really distrust you given that you are emotional about this issue and thus reactive. I will only believe you if you just do not post anything. You have a need to prove something to others and I believe that is a universal symptom of insecurity.

I am very concerned about you.

**Anglo-Celtic** · 06-29-2022, 12:33 AM

Originally Posted by Richmondbread

I don't have BPD . That's a female disorder. I just get depressed about my looks.

I can't diagnose you. That disclaimer out of the way, switch the "P" with a "D".

**Chron** · 06-29-2022, 01:37 AM

Originally Posted by Gamaliel

This is actually very tragic...

Richmondbread probably has borderline personality disorder or trouble handling his emotions and he may try to kill himself impulsively... I met people with “bpd” when I was in therapy and it is not pretty... much of his tendencies remind me of theirs.

Can the moderators please ban him for some time? Not everyone on this forum (I am guilty of this myself) would be aware that he is not a troll and some people are outright unpleasant and that can exacerbate his issues.

He just made a thread on the 25th about not being so active on here. A few days later and he has 3 of the same thread going at once about this. It's not even entertaining anymore, it really is concerning.