Are all women jealaous if you cheat on them?

[Mortimer]

It occurs to me that earlier women would not have been jealous at all, but they think it's good if their husband has many wives, by the way, in Islam, for example, you can have several wives and the women don't mind that they are just one of many. In my grandparents' generation, men still cheated on women and women didn't think anything of it, it just wasn't allowed to be the other way around, for a woman to cheat on a man. I think it was more looked down on if a man is a virgin, then if he has many women, it was expected that a man has many women and the women would approve of it but look down on a man who doesnt have many women.

[TheMaestro]

Women are and always will be jealous, same with men. Even if it was more acceptable before they still were jealous.

[Pro.crasti.nation]

It occurs to me that earlier women would not have been jealous at all, but they think it's good if their husband has many wives, by the way, in Islam, for example, you can have several wives and the women don't mind that they are just one of many. In my grandparents' generation, men still cheated on women and women didn't think anything of it, it just wasn't allowed to be the other way around, for a woman to cheat on a man. I think it was more looked down on if a man is a virgin, then if he has many women, it was expected that a man has many women and the women would approve of it but look down on a man who doesnt have many women.

What is a woman?

[White Swan]

The possible reactions for not being a man's only choice range from taking mild offense to adopting a state of bitter hopelessness. This will depend on how the woman feels about the man. This is because whether or not a man cheats says everything about how he feels about that woman/his maturity as a man. A fully matured man is capable of loving a woman, which means not replacing her with other women/creating competition for her offspring. Most men never fully mature into what they could be, and most people never have love in marriage. It's a cruel world. Meanwhile, if a woman is indifferent to this, she does not care much what that man thinks of her or feels for her or her children, and is equally less valuable.

Every high quality woman is hurt when she is not enough for her love, some just cope better than others. What you have observed is probably better coping, not less jealousy/interest in what her husband thinks and feels for her. Unless she really doesn't care what he feels for her or thinks of her, which means she does not respect him.

Women have to be exclusive so that we can know whose babies are whose, and women doing so proves obedience to her ward, which all women should have. Male exclusivity means nothing unless it is voluntary, so it is pointless to try to enforce it, so it is less common.

Aside from how the women feel, the half-siblings will surely war with one another. So when a man does have multiple wives he sentences his lineage to in-fighting. Not very loving or respectable. There are many practical reasons to be monogamous, so I do not think it is a purely selfish/controlling emotion for women to feel jealous either.

K type women are probably more jealous than R type because the way a K type sees it, why would you stretch resources across multiple competing wives and offspring instead of just investing into one high quality lineage. If you don't see a woman as high quality, then of course you wouldn't place all your eggs in that basket, and you would want to sow your seed in a few more fields. This is not lost on the woman, resulting naturally in offense and jealousy.

Women who want the best for there children ARE jealous of any half-lineage competing for resources, and hurt that her husband does not think highly enough of her or her offspring to invest in them. It is not the same as abandonment, but it edges in that direction compared to monogamy.

While it may sometimes seem that a man who can keep many wives may gain respect in some ways, it is really the qualities that make him capable of doing so that are the source of the added respect, not the fact that he got a bunch of women who don't care much what he thinks to be his dependopotumuses for life in exchange for shallow sex. Not wise. A man who is nonmanogamous certainly does not deserve as much overall respect as a monogamous man, nor does he have it. The level at which the woman values his opinion/affection and therefore how jealous she is, is proportionate to the amount of respect she has for him (aside from said coping capabilities). So if a man is highly promiscuous, his wife probably has no respect for him and does not care what he thinks of her. If a woman marries a man who already has wives, she is not looking for his affection and she does not respect him the way she would respect a monogamous man. If he started off as monogamous but lost his self control, she's probably bitterly disappointed at first, but that will fade and be replaced with lack of respect. Take your pick. Some shallow sex from many women that results in children that will try to kill each other OR a high value mutual pair-bond with deep admiration and respect from one woman which results in offspring that had the most you could give them and the best family life imaginable.

Anyways, no it is not possible for a high quality woman with a strong pair bond to you who cares what you think (ie. Respects you) to not be jealous.
It is somewhat possible for a woman who does not care what her husband thinks or how well her children do to be not jealous, though she is probably still offended and depending on her sense of personal pride this will be either a small problem or a very big problem.

[NSXD60]

If she hates fucking you she'll be relieved.

[Eliades]

Yeah of course, but they seem to handle to cheating better than men. Of course, this isn't a fact, but in my personal experiences I've seen women forgive cheating man, more than the reverse. For some reason, modern women seem to love men who have other women going after them (we on the other hand don't really care if our woman attracts other men or not), they seem to respect a man who has options. Again, these aren't facts, everyone is different, but this is my experience and that of other guys I know as well.

[Volvado Seja]

Yes

[Atlantic Reptilian]

Only immature people are jealaous. I find it more appropriate of a woman to be disgusted if her partner cheated.
In my family it's seen as bad behaviour if a man has more than one wife/girlfriend. They usually marry after meeting each other and it's rare that they have had more than one partner. Maybe if their girlfriend died early, then it's acceptable.
As far I can tell nobody asks a man if he's a virgin or not. That would be considered perverted, like asking to see his genitalia.

[picklebrain]

The more high value a man, the more she'll be jealous. Jealousy applies to both genders though, nobody wants to be replaced by someone better.

[Odelia]

Women are and always will be jealous, same with men. Even if it was more acceptable before they still were jealous.

Women get more jealous and clingy than men.