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The over-romanticisation of the concept of "community".
The concept of community has been a lot in my mind lately, as I have been considering settling to a place, where I also could happily retire to for the rest of my life.
Visiting a town of my childhood made me realize why I now had chosen to live where I do in Straya.
Closeness to nature is the first consideration, which I do need like oxygen.
The sense of a community is the second consideration, although as important.
And of course, - services.
In Melbourne I wouldn’t dare to say “G’day” to a stranger on the street, because people would look at you suspiciously as though thinking: “What’s wrong with her – What does she want?”
Here you would get a questioning stare if you did not say “Hello, Good morning” to somebody/anybody on the street.
Rural town communities, people who after 4th generations might consider you as a local can be really ‘seedy’ behind the scenes.
More relaxed Anglo-Australian communities by the beaches can be nice, but people minding each other’s businesses’ - being in each other’s pockets all the time gets to be a bit too much after awhile.
Aboriginal communities accept and ‘adopt’ you straight away and then you are well and truly stuck in it, through thick and thin:
So, I prefer an Anglo-Australian, other nationalities and Indigenous mix, people who have lived a long time together now as friends and neighbours.
Freedom to be as you are, yet enough closeness to have that community feeling of familiarity.
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