Would you date with significant age gap - on the older side?

[Kriptc06]

Would you commit to a person with who is significantly older, 10, 15, 20 years older than you? What's your "limit" in dating?

Personally I tend to gravitate, and have dated in the past with significant age gap, I don't really mind. Older partners play no little games that youngers would.
But it's not at all a rule or thing for me.

Thoughts?

[Rafael Passoni]

I prefer people older than me, a 10-15 years gap is ok to me.

[Kriptc06]

I prefer people older than me, a 10-15 years gap is ok to me.

one of my exes was 15y older than me, it was the best relationship I have ever had. We broke for reasons unrelated to the gap.

[capocannoniere]

10 years is max to me, for dating at least.

[Tongio]

As a average looking male in the incelage(read involuntary celibate as the normal state for most man) / 21st century, i cant and i will not be picky when "choosing " dates , once she is not too ugly or too anoying she can bê up to 50, i am open.And if her ovaries are somewhat far from running dry, i will unavoidably consider making It serious.so in that case 30 yo for me is the max age wich would already bê a 10 years diference.

[capocannoniere]

As a average looking male in the incelage(read involuntary celibate as the normal state for most man) / 21st century, i cant and i will not be picky when "choosing " dates , once she is not too ugly or too anoying she can bê up to 50, i am open.And if her ovaries are somewhat far from running dry, i will unavoidably consider making It serious.so in that case 30 yo for me is the max age wich would already bê a 10 years diference.

The whole "inceldom as the fate of men" thing is too much of an internet spook. Guys uglier than me that live the degenerate life style get their fair share of casual sex and even some relationships with people in their beauty range. Women can be hypergamous and gold diggers, but it is not as if we men are bastions of morality nowadays. When I made the whole Tinder mistake, I got one match or another from girls in my looks range, even in my young age. But even though I would do those girls, casual sex just feels like egotistical masturbation, like a lower version of intimacy.

The thing is that knowing people is a lot harder these days. Bigger, lower-trust cities, online interaction as dominant and so on. Good relationships begin with uninterested talking that escalates to a certain point, and nowadays with atomized communities it is quite hard. I had a very good 3-year long relationship that would never have happened if we were mere photos and short descriptions on Tinder.

Call it cope, but I don't think that we will all die alone unless we have the height of a basketball player and the looks of Caio Castro, as looksmaxxers and internet incels say.

[Blondie]

+10 years maybe would be okay, but this is the max.

[Tongio]

The whole "inceldom as the fate of men" thing is too much of an internet spook. Guys uglier than me that live the degenerate life style get their fair share of casual sex and even some relationships with people in their beauty range. Women can be hypergamous and gold diggers, but it is not as if we men are bastions of morality nowadays. When I made the whole Tinder mistake, I got one match or another from girls in my looks range, even in my young age. But even though I would do those girls, casual sex just feels like egotistical masturbation, like a lower version of intimacy.

What i mean is that with the sum of woman's liberation and social medias most man today are sexless as most man are meh tô woman, and we have a realy hard time getting physical with woman , without paying. Its not just about looks of course , tho It is a very important factor.

The thing is that knowing people is a lot harder these days. Bigger, lower-trust cities, online interaction as dominant and so on. Good relationships begin with uninterested talking that escalates to a certain point, and nowadays with atomized communities it is quite hard. I had a very good 3-year long relationship that would never have happened if we were mere photos and short descriptions on Tinder.

Verdade , boa análise, esse sempre foi o maior problema pra mim, um tipo de isolamento em meio a massa, além disso nas horas essências eu estava nos locais errados sem oportunidades, eu não ser normal da cabeça também nunca ajudou.

Call it cope, but I don't think that we will all die alone unless we have the height of a basketball player and the looks of Caio Castro, as looksmaxxers and internet incels say.

We are not going to , hopefully.The thing is, i dont judge woman , demonise then, If i had such easy access to a lot of interested woman , i would choose the prettier of course , in the very least.There is a balance, these sort after guys are not many so most average man get a oportunity once in a while, and here comes a great deal of luck, impregnation is a milenia old technic that helps keeping the girl .

[Incal]

Depends on hotness/personality, that's what I notice first. Age comes secondary.

[capocannoniere]

What i mean is that with the sum of woman's liberation and social medias most man today are sexless as most man are meh tô woman, and we have a realy hard time getting physical with woman , without paying. Its not just about looks of course , tho It is a very important factor.

Don't agree, but have no proof or critical reasoning to counterargument.

Verdade , boa análise, esse sempre foi o maior problema pra mim, um tipo de isolamento em meio a massa, além disso nas horas essências eu estava nos locais errados sem oportunidades, eu não ser normal da cabeça também nunca ajudou.

Isso aí é uma bosta. E não sei se queremos dizer a mesma coisa com não ser normal da cabeça, mas nesses casos tem que ter a sorte de que haja outras pessoas igualmente anormais, e se eu conheci 3 gurias assim na vida real, pra quem o que eu falava não era coisa de louco, foi demais.